So I girl I knew from college a while back found me on Facebook.. we only met once during college.. well she messages me all week about wanting to hang out this past weekend. She then says she can't she has stuff to do. Well she messages me again with her phone number and tells me to "call her any time" and she would love for me to call... She gave me her # on friday, I was out of town all weekend so I could not call sooner.. I did ask her if it was alright I'd call, she said yes and she would like that
Well I call her tonight, no answer, so I leave a voice mail. I go online and she is online on Facebook..
What the heck is up with that??? What do I do now?
What is the psychology of this?
She is fishing.
Don't follow up anymore. You are just caught up in her game.
Reply:If you find a girl in a bar, expect her to be a drinker. If you find her in Facebook, expect to see her there again. When you are looking for a pardner, be where you want her to be from.
Reply:You say you met her in college and you only met once. Well, I say she must have been pretty impressed by you to have hunted you down so she could ask you out and give you her number, or she is trying to put another hole in her belt if you get my drift and she only intends to do it when a time is convenient for her. I think she probably was busy, and if she is anything like me she hates answering the phone when she is online or she could be like my daughter and constantly have headphones on. I don't know how my daughter can hear herself think with those things on all the time much less hear the phone. Well that's one explanation why she may have had the answering machine on and not heard your call. You will just have to follow your gut on that one. : )
Reply:Not only is she "punking" you. But you look like you have no self-esteem, because you just exploited yourself. You gotta be more manlike and move on to a more socially stable woman.
Reply:Well, there's always the possibility that she's busy whenever you come around or something. Or maybe she's just insecure. She probably likes to take initiative at first, but then when reality hits that something might actually happen she gets scared and becomes an insecure wreck. There's a lot of disorders out there like bipolar and dissoaciative. But I'm it's not the case with her. I sometimes stay online without noticing and people write to me and I dont answer because I dotn know Im still on. Dont worry...I'm sure you'll catch her at a good time and hopefully things will work out.
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Question on this girl???
So I girl I knew from college a while back found me on Facebook.. we only met once during college.. well she messages me all week about wanting to hang out this past weekend. She then says she can't she has stuff to do. Well she messages me again with her phone number and tells me to "call her any time" and she would love for me to call... She gave me her # on friday, I was out of town all weekend so I could not call sooner.. I did ask her if it was alright I'd call, she said yes and she would like that
Well I call her tonight, no answer, so I leave a voice mail. I go online and she is online on Facebook..
What the heck is up with that??? What do I do now?
Question on this girl???
Just wait it out... Sometimes when a person doesn't log off of Facebook it says that they are still online. But if she doesn't send you a message or call you back within a week then she was just making conversation and your best beat is to find forget about her...
Reply:Wait for her to call you back. She's probably really nervous about talking to you because she likes you.
Reply:She why she decided to find you if you only saw the chick once.. then find out why she is telling you to call or hang out with her and then decide she is busy and not going to answer her phone. Personal opinion I just think she is kind dinkin around with anyone.
Reply:I think shes playing hard to get but shes not so good at it!! Lol!! I hope she answers soon but dont keep calling her she'll think u r desperate!! :)
Reply:Sounds like this girl is very fickle and doesn't know what she wants, except lots of attention from everyone.
Drop her from your phone and chat list, and move on...she isn't worth the worry.
Reply:To be honest, I think she is playing with you. A lot of girls do that. You need to talk to her and let her know that you don't appreciate being played like that. If you keep going after her, she will continue to act like she has been since she belives it works so far.
Reply:first of all thats a dirty move on her side, seems like she is into you more than you are into her. did you talk to her after? did she come up with an excuse? if its a weak excuse then you know shes playin with your head
Reply:now you wait for her to call you.
Reply:It looks like she is more comfortable online than on the phone. I have to text and IM my son. That drives me nuts. He never answers the phone. Send her a message and ask her when you can call? She might have more than one interest going on. My son talks to more than one person at once. That makes me bonkers.
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Well I call her tonight, no answer, so I leave a voice mail. I go online and she is online on Facebook..
What the heck is up with that??? What do I do now?
Question on this girl???
Just wait it out... Sometimes when a person doesn't log off of Facebook it says that they are still online. But if she doesn't send you a message or call you back within a week then she was just making conversation and your best beat is to find forget about her...
Reply:Wait for her to call you back. She's probably really nervous about talking to you because she likes you.
Reply:She why she decided to find you if you only saw the chick once.. then find out why she is telling you to call or hang out with her and then decide she is busy and not going to answer her phone. Personal opinion I just think she is kind dinkin around with anyone.
Reply:I think shes playing hard to get but shes not so good at it!! Lol!! I hope she answers soon but dont keep calling her she'll think u r desperate!! :)
Reply:Sounds like this girl is very fickle and doesn't know what she wants, except lots of attention from everyone.
Drop her from your phone and chat list, and move on...she isn't worth the worry.
Reply:To be honest, I think she is playing with you. A lot of girls do that. You need to talk to her and let her know that you don't appreciate being played like that. If you keep going after her, she will continue to act like she has been since she belives it works so far.
Reply:first of all thats a dirty move on her side, seems like she is into you more than you are into her. did you talk to her after? did she come up with an excuse? if its a weak excuse then you know shes playin with your head
Reply:now you wait for her to call you.
Reply:It looks like she is more comfortable online than on the phone. I have to text and IM my son. That drives me nuts. He never answers the phone. Send her a message and ask her when you can call? She might have more than one interest going on. My son talks to more than one person at once. That makes me bonkers.
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What type of legal action can i take?
Hi - I am currently having an issue with a boy on "facebook". Facebook is an online community for college students. I do not know this boy or have contact with him other than the harrassment he sends me. He has harrassed my boyfriend who he doesn't know and he has said very nasty comments towards me such as hoping I die and name calling. I have asked him to stop - this first happened June 24th - now it's Feb and he has posted another message. I have just contacted facebook and blocked him and I'm hoping he doesn't retaliate in some way. Can i take legal actions if this reoccurs or am I being silly? This is a very upsetting issue to me and hopefully it is done with after contacting the site - I'm just looking for some advice if anyone has any. Be nice and Thanks.
What type of legal action can i take?
It might be an assault that you could sue for. Words alone cannot constitute an assault, but if you reasonably fear for your safety because this person knows who you are and where you live and he could reasonably come and hurt you (which I'm assuming that's true since you said you hope that he doesn't retaliate for you blocking him on facebook).
An assault is where a person acts with the intent to cause the apprehension of physical harm in another person and that apprehension does result.
Clearly there was an act (his contacting you on facebook) and there was an apprehension of physical harm (you're concerned for your safety). Presumably his act was done to cause that apprehension of physical harm because he knew that sending you these harrassments about hoping that you'll die and things like that would scare you.
I'm sure you could get a restraining order or something to stop him from harrassing you too... and if he breaks that, he gets arrested.
If you really want to sue him, you'll need a lawyer. Good luck with this... I hope he stops bothering you.
I get thumbs down votes for being the only person on the board who knows the law?
Reply:that's so weird someone put thumbs down - people are crazy.. i just noticed a lot of thumbs down on other peoples as well.. . ignore it - i appreciate your post.. thanks!! Report It
Reply:You Bet Your Sweet Bippy you have recourse.
It's called Terroristic-Threats, and if you can produce evidence of these alleged acts, such as a copy of the E-Mail or Instant Message It can be traced back to this person. Also keep a log of the annoying contacts with any witnesses that will testify. While the evidence may be circumstantial, it may be enough for small claims Court. Another way of looking at this would be to entrap him with a police officer in the waiting posing as you.
GOD BLESS/GOOD LUCK!!
Reply:i dont really think u can do anything legally unless he is really threataning to kill u or anything like besides since u say u dont know him im not really shure how u can most likly the website wont give his information out but i really hope things work out for u and that creep leaves u alone take care
Reply:You go sister! Don't take no crap from this kid. I say you go after him anyway you can. Get yo self a good lawyer. Like one of those I see on Springer or Maury. They should be able to drop it like its hot.
Reply:Does he know you personally or where you live?
If not ignore him. It is the Internet
Reply:Just dont use facebook, ignore him and go live your life. Not everything in this world can be fixed with a lawyer sometimes you need to just ignore someone who is obviously a turd looking for negative attention. Its probably some goofball who knows he can get your goat by sending you the messages so just ignore him and dont feed into his ego.
Reply:If he has threatened you, call the police. Also notify college authorities.
Reply:Someone you don't know posted a derogatory message on a fairly anonymous sight? What's the issue? You're taking it too personally. Worry more about what the people you know think and say.
Reply:Oooooo, that sounds nasty. You did the right thing contacting the moderators. Legally, they can abruptly band him - or more -...especially for death threats.
I would suggest you don't retaliate in any way - just ignore his comments. Also, change your screen name password and ID...start fresh with everything.
For future reference "save" or print out his comments.
Reply:O.K.- You said that some boy had HARRASSED you,now,let me ask you something,HOW he knew about you ?WHAT you been looking in that Facebook site ?HOW you describe yourself in that site ?DID YOU been looking for male friends ?HOW he knew that you have a boy friend ?
See,if he harrassed you I think it was because you gave him some hope about meeting him to know better each other,because nobody start harrassing somebody else just for fun.
Let me ask you something else ;WHY A GIRL WHO HAS A BOY FRIEND HAS TO GO INTO INTERNET LOOKING FOR MALES FRIENDS ?
WHY SOMEBODY HAS TO GO INTO INTERNET LOOKING FOR FRIENDSHIP WITH PERSONS OF THE SAME SEX OF HIS PARTNER ?
WHAT YOU REALLY BEEN LOOKING FOR ?
YOU BEEN LOOKING FOR FAN AT EXPENSES OF SOMEBODY ELSE ?
DID YOU WROTE TO HIM PLAYING SEXI GIRL ?
OR MAYBE YOU MET HIM AND AFTER YOU TRY TO BRAKE UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND THEM WAS WHEN HE HARRASSED YOU ?
FROM THE TIME THAT YOU HAVE A BOY FRIEND AND YOU LOVE HIM,AND DO NOT TRYING TO BRAKE UP WITH HIM,THERE IS NO REASON TO LOOK AROUND TO FIND ANOTHERS MALE FRIENDS TO WHOM YOU CAN WRITE
OR TALK TO THEM FROM TIME TO TIME,OR VERY OFTEN,BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO RIGHTS TO MAKE SOMEBODY HOPE TO MEET YOU ONE DAY AND FROM THERE ON GO TOGETHER HAND IN HAND,BECAUSE THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE FEELING LONELY AND LOOKING FOR A PARTNER IN LOVE,AND IF YOU GIVE THEM HOPE JUST FOR FUN,YOU ARE MAKING HIM SUFFER AND THIS IS """ NOT NICE """
" I HOPE YOU DON'T TAKE MI COMMENTS AS NEW HARRASSMENTS "
Good luck.-
What type of legal action can i take?
It might be an assault that you could sue for. Words alone cannot constitute an assault, but if you reasonably fear for your safety because this person knows who you are and where you live and he could reasonably come and hurt you (which I'm assuming that's true since you said you hope that he doesn't retaliate for you blocking him on facebook).
An assault is where a person acts with the intent to cause the apprehension of physical harm in another person and that apprehension does result.
Clearly there was an act (his contacting you on facebook) and there was an apprehension of physical harm (you're concerned for your safety). Presumably his act was done to cause that apprehension of physical harm because he knew that sending you these harrassments about hoping that you'll die and things like that would scare you.
I'm sure you could get a restraining order or something to stop him from harrassing you too... and if he breaks that, he gets arrested.
If you really want to sue him, you'll need a lawyer. Good luck with this... I hope he stops bothering you.
I get thumbs down votes for being the only person on the board who knows the law?
Reply:that's so weird someone put thumbs down - people are crazy.. i just noticed a lot of thumbs down on other peoples as well.. . ignore it - i appreciate your post.. thanks!! Report It
Reply:You Bet Your Sweet Bippy you have recourse.
It's called Terroristic-Threats, and if you can produce evidence of these alleged acts, such as a copy of the E-Mail or Instant Message It can be traced back to this person. Also keep a log of the annoying contacts with any witnesses that will testify. While the evidence may be circumstantial, it may be enough for small claims Court. Another way of looking at this would be to entrap him with a police officer in the waiting posing as you.
GOD BLESS/GOOD LUCK!!
Reply:i dont really think u can do anything legally unless he is really threataning to kill u or anything like besides since u say u dont know him im not really shure how u can most likly the website wont give his information out but i really hope things work out for u and that creep leaves u alone take care
Reply:You go sister! Don't take no crap from this kid. I say you go after him anyway you can. Get yo self a good lawyer. Like one of those I see on Springer or Maury. They should be able to drop it like its hot.
Reply:Does he know you personally or where you live?
If not ignore him. It is the Internet
Reply:Just dont use facebook, ignore him and go live your life. Not everything in this world can be fixed with a lawyer sometimes you need to just ignore someone who is obviously a turd looking for negative attention. Its probably some goofball who knows he can get your goat by sending you the messages so just ignore him and dont feed into his ego.
Reply:If he has threatened you, call the police. Also notify college authorities.
Reply:Someone you don't know posted a derogatory message on a fairly anonymous sight? What's the issue? You're taking it too personally. Worry more about what the people you know think and say.
Reply:Oooooo, that sounds nasty. You did the right thing contacting the moderators. Legally, they can abruptly band him - or more -...especially for death threats.
I would suggest you don't retaliate in any way - just ignore his comments. Also, change your screen name password and ID...start fresh with everything.
For future reference "save" or print out his comments.
Reply:O.K.- You said that some boy had HARRASSED you,now,let me ask you something,HOW he knew about you ?WHAT you been looking in that Facebook site ?HOW you describe yourself in that site ?DID YOU been looking for male friends ?HOW he knew that you have a boy friend ?
See,if he harrassed you I think it was because you gave him some hope about meeting him to know better each other,because nobody start harrassing somebody else just for fun.
Let me ask you something else ;WHY A GIRL WHO HAS A BOY FRIEND HAS TO GO INTO INTERNET LOOKING FOR MALES FRIENDS ?
WHY SOMEBODY HAS TO GO INTO INTERNET LOOKING FOR FRIENDSHIP WITH PERSONS OF THE SAME SEX OF HIS PARTNER ?
WHAT YOU REALLY BEEN LOOKING FOR ?
YOU BEEN LOOKING FOR FAN AT EXPENSES OF SOMEBODY ELSE ?
DID YOU WROTE TO HIM PLAYING SEXI GIRL ?
OR MAYBE YOU MET HIM AND AFTER YOU TRY TO BRAKE UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND THEM WAS WHEN HE HARRASSED YOU ?
FROM THE TIME THAT YOU HAVE A BOY FRIEND AND YOU LOVE HIM,AND DO NOT TRYING TO BRAKE UP WITH HIM,THERE IS NO REASON TO LOOK AROUND TO FIND ANOTHERS MALE FRIENDS TO WHOM YOU CAN WRITE
OR TALK TO THEM FROM TIME TO TIME,OR VERY OFTEN,BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO RIGHTS TO MAKE SOMEBODY HOPE TO MEET YOU ONE DAY AND FROM THERE ON GO TOGETHER HAND IN HAND,BECAUSE THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE FEELING LONELY AND LOOKING FOR A PARTNER IN LOVE,AND IF YOU GIVE THEM HOPE JUST FOR FUN,YOU ARE MAKING HIM SUFFER AND THIS IS """ NOT NICE """
" I HOPE YOU DON'T TAKE MI COMMENTS AS NEW HARRASSMENTS "
Good luck.-
GUYS and Girls HELP ME OUT PLEASE I NEED SOME BRO TO BRO ADVICE ON A GIRL, please man do a dude a good favour?
i liked this girl and got talking to her on facebook. we went to the same college but never spoke. just made eye contact. we were talking for three weeks on facebook. she gave me her number. i tried calling in that time but she never answered. i told her i like her and she rejected me and told me she's 'sort of seeing someone'. i felt bad. in the time before she rejected me i posted a comment of her pic on facebook. she liked it at the time. she has not messaged me in a month. has not deleted me as a friend or the pic comment. last week she sent a random text saying she was bored , to which i replied im bored too. no further communication. whats the story here? is there any chance of anything? should i delete her and the pic comment?
GUYS and Girls HELP ME OUT PLEASE I NEED SOME BRO TO BRO ADVICE ON A GIRL, please man do a dude a good favour?
Dude. Chill. Its all good. You can talk to her. Just don't be a creep about it.
Reply:Dude. She's a slut Report It
Reply:If you like her then why do you want to delete her as a friend? That makes no sense. I bet she already forgot about the picture comment anyway so don't even mention that again. The fact that she FIRST texted you to tell you that she was bored meant that she wanted you to suggest you guys do something together, that's the only reason. And the fact that you replied that you're bored too was not what she was wanting to expect so that's why she didn't reply, becos you dissappointed her. You were probally too abrupt in telling her you liked her and didn't give her enough time. You should carry on talking to her on facebook and text msging her but if she isn't replying then stop becos you gonna irritate her. If she does reply then ask her to do something with you but like in a group of friends and take it from there.
Reply:When a chic comes to YOU as a last resort (I.E. she's bored) that's a BAD thing. Why? simple, she only needs you for temporary amusement but as soon as she finds some guy that'll show her fun...you're history. Look, the way I see it, even if you have a great time with her you pretty much blew your chances by asking her out without even seeing her in person (been there, done that). I'm pretty sure she's NOT seeing someone because then she wouldn't have had to text you that she was bored. If she was she'd be occupied thinking of whatever other guy she could've been thinking about. Your best course of action is when you see her on campus try and talk to her and show her a good time everytime you see her. This way, her emotions for you could change but there's a slim chance so don't put all your money on the gamble. Remember...girls hearts are fickle...no matter how you look at it.
Reply:She sounds like a ho-bag. I assume you can do better.
Reply:You want to delete her and the pic comment to forget about her?? Than yes do it.
Find someone else that likes you.
She never answers your calls... why wait for her?
Girls don't like desperate guys... turn off.
Find someone better that won't give you mix signals!
Reply:A chance i'm not sure, but the text message at least lets you know that she knows you still exist. Send her a text and ask he what she is doing later on and go from there in my opinion.
Reply:i think she just likes you just a friend and an addition to her collection of friends in facebook. Sorry hun but she already rejected you once.
Reply:When she said she was bored you were supposed to do something about it, not agree that you are bored to
Reply:No, don't delete her as a friend or the comment. That is really immature. She might really be seeing someone or she just isn't interested in you very much. Sometimes girls like to be chased, then once they know the guy is intersted, they are bored. Some girls just really like to have friends and when a guy first acts like a friend, then gets all sentimental, it makes it uncomfortable. If she says she isn't intersted, then move on, but still keep her friendship.
Reply:Find someone else
Reply:She probably didn't take you seriously or maybe was wierded out so she's trying to make things normal again.
Reply:no chance. Just forget it and move on.
Reply:She knows she has you wrapped around her finger and will jump when she tells you too.
Obviously, not something you wanted to hear. Thats fine. Karma is a *****.
Reply:your relationship is an electronic relationship meaning its only internet based and mobile. if's she's "sorta seeing someone" then she's out of bounds, move on! you told her you liked her and she rekected you, to me it seems she likes the attention from you. don't feel bad about her sorta seeing someone as she should have said something before and not been flirting with you (if she was)
still be friends but meet up more face to face don't base your relationship on facebook and txts as they not like real life, if you guys go to the same school then theirs no excuse of you not being able to see her there.
see how things go
xx
Reply:You stand no chance at all!!! Best advice: Don't behave like a big loser and find yourself ANOTHER chick! Someone who would at least say "HI" back to you...
GUYS and Girls HELP ME OUT PLEASE I NEED SOME BRO TO BRO ADVICE ON A GIRL, please man do a dude a good favour?
Dude. Chill. Its all good. You can talk to her. Just don't be a creep about it.
Reply:Dude. She's a slut Report It
Reply:If you like her then why do you want to delete her as a friend? That makes no sense. I bet she already forgot about the picture comment anyway so don't even mention that again. The fact that she FIRST texted you to tell you that she was bored meant that she wanted you to suggest you guys do something together, that's the only reason. And the fact that you replied that you're bored too was not what she was wanting to expect so that's why she didn't reply, becos you dissappointed her. You were probally too abrupt in telling her you liked her and didn't give her enough time. You should carry on talking to her on facebook and text msging her but if she isn't replying then stop becos you gonna irritate her. If she does reply then ask her to do something with you but like in a group of friends and take it from there.
Reply:When a chic comes to YOU as a last resort (I.E. she's bored) that's a BAD thing. Why? simple, she only needs you for temporary amusement but as soon as she finds some guy that'll show her fun...you're history. Look, the way I see it, even if you have a great time with her you pretty much blew your chances by asking her out without even seeing her in person (been there, done that). I'm pretty sure she's NOT seeing someone because then she wouldn't have had to text you that she was bored. If she was she'd be occupied thinking of whatever other guy she could've been thinking about. Your best course of action is when you see her on campus try and talk to her and show her a good time everytime you see her. This way, her emotions for you could change but there's a slim chance so don't put all your money on the gamble. Remember...girls hearts are fickle...no matter how you look at it.
Reply:She sounds like a ho-bag. I assume you can do better.
Reply:You want to delete her and the pic comment to forget about her?? Than yes do it.
Find someone else that likes you.
She never answers your calls... why wait for her?
Girls don't like desperate guys... turn off.
Find someone better that won't give you mix signals!
Reply:A chance i'm not sure, but the text message at least lets you know that she knows you still exist. Send her a text and ask he what she is doing later on and go from there in my opinion.
Reply:i think she just likes you just a friend and an addition to her collection of friends in facebook. Sorry hun but she already rejected you once.
Reply:When she said she was bored you were supposed to do something about it, not agree that you are bored to
Reply:No, don't delete her as a friend or the comment. That is really immature. She might really be seeing someone or she just isn't interested in you very much. Sometimes girls like to be chased, then once they know the guy is intersted, they are bored. Some girls just really like to have friends and when a guy first acts like a friend, then gets all sentimental, it makes it uncomfortable. If she says she isn't intersted, then move on, but still keep her friendship.
Reply:Find someone else
Reply:She probably didn't take you seriously or maybe was wierded out so she's trying to make things normal again.
Reply:no chance. Just forget it and move on.
Reply:She knows she has you wrapped around her finger and will jump when she tells you too.
Obviously, not something you wanted to hear. Thats fine. Karma is a *****.
Reply:your relationship is an electronic relationship meaning its only internet based and mobile. if's she's "sorta seeing someone" then she's out of bounds, move on! you told her you liked her and she rekected you, to me it seems she likes the attention from you. don't feel bad about her sorta seeing someone as she should have said something before and not been flirting with you (if she was)
still be friends but meet up more face to face don't base your relationship on facebook and txts as they not like real life, if you guys go to the same school then theirs no excuse of you not being able to see her there.
see how things go
xx
Reply:You stand no chance at all!!! Best advice: Don't behave like a big loser and find yourself ANOTHER chick! Someone who would at least say "HI" back to you...
Ladies I need your help! Guys your opinion is appreciated also...?
Ok you guys, Im 18 years old, soon to be 19.... I'm 5'9 180 lbs.
I have recently completed the three month long Power90X+ workout routine... Not trying to brag... but my body is looking better than I have ever dreamed it would be... Its like im using someones else's body... Jacked and Fully Shreaded!
Nevertheless... my high school female friends who are now in college have seen my photos on facebook and myspace and want me to do a male strip-tease or some exotic male flexing...
The thing is... I have never done anything like that nor have I been to a club and seen a male model doing a strip tease...
What I would REALLY appreciate is if you guys know ANY good music that i could play in the background while im performing... and also if you know any links to any male stripping tutorial....
Thanks you so very Kindly and have a blessed day!!!
and oh yea, Wish me luck! :)
Ladies I need your help! Guys your opinion is appreciated also...?
don't do it u'll regret it
they just wanna have a laugh
Reply:Just do what comes natural, you don't have to be perfect, be yourself.
Reply:whatever
Reply:wth?
I have recently completed the three month long Power90X+ workout routine... Not trying to brag... but my body is looking better than I have ever dreamed it would be... Its like im using someones else's body... Jacked and Fully Shreaded!
Nevertheless... my high school female friends who are now in college have seen my photos on facebook and myspace and want me to do a male strip-tease or some exotic male flexing...
The thing is... I have never done anything like that nor have I been to a club and seen a male model doing a strip tease...
What I would REALLY appreciate is if you guys know ANY good music that i could play in the background while im performing... and also if you know any links to any male stripping tutorial....
Thanks you so very Kindly and have a blessed day!!!
and oh yea, Wish me luck! :)
Ladies I need your help! Guys your opinion is appreciated also...?
don't do it u'll regret it
they just wanna have a laugh
Reply:Just do what comes natural, you don't have to be perfect, be yourself.
Reply:whatever
Reply:wth?
Ladies I need your help! Guys your opinion is appreciated also...?
Ok you guys, Im 18 years old, soon to be 19.... I'm 5'9 180 lbs.
I have recently completed the three month long Power90X+ workout routine... Not trying to brag... but my body is looking better than I have ever dreamed it would be... Its like im using someones else's body... Jacked and Fully Shreaded!
Nevertheless... my high school female friends who are now in college have seen my photos on facebook and myspace and want me to do a male strip-tease or some exotic male flexing...
The thing is... I have never done anything like that nor have I been to a club and seen a male model doing a strip tease...
What I would REALLY appreciate is if you guys know ANY good music that i could play in the background while im performing... and also if you know any links to any male stripping tutorial....
Thanks you so very Kindly and have a blessed day!!!
and oh yea, Wish me luck! :)
Ladies I need your help! Guys your opinion is appreciated also...?
have some self respect.. you want to show off your newfound hot body? have some professional photos taken, but to strip for a bunch of honeee women/men is lowering yourself.
Reply:Haha, well done you stallion you! Lmao. Nah man, i have a suggestion. Watch "The Full Monty," it's a british comedy film about normal guys who have never tried strip teasing before and decide to do a gig in their town for money. The film's hilarious, but the music is a good place to start. After all, the film is about male strippers. Check out the soundtrack, search for "The Full Monty" on google. You may be able to find the soundtrack yourself, or the individual songs, good luck.
Reply:I think alternative rock may be fun to see a guy strip to, maybe something like Rob Zombie or the Queen of the Damned Soundtrack. Just go with whatever you feel like doing, be yourself, I think you'll have fun!
Don't worry about it so much, I think those lucky girls will just be glad enough that you are going to do that for them! :-)
Reply:You don't have to go all the way for the girls to go nuts.
Go to one of those clubs, and learn some of the moves.
Keep your speedo on to collect all those bills they will want to stuff in there.
Have fun with it, and learn to do a lap dance for those girls.
Reply:i agree with natalie your lowing your self by doing that
Reply:you shook me all night long by AC/DC would be a good one....actually, probably anything by AC/DC would be good. If you don't like them, a sorta of dancy song, just so you could really "shake things up".
Good luck!!!
Reply:First of all I hope you are not doing it for free. the music is hard to determine because I don't know your dance style. third go to a web site that show the one and only Chip ~n~ Dale dancers.
Reply:YMCA!
Reply:kekekeke
strip tease..
Reply:watchout they might be setting you up for major embarassment
Reply:just luck with that.
Reply:I was looking at that Power90X, its that good eh?
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I have recently completed the three month long Power90X+ workout routine... Not trying to brag... but my body is looking better than I have ever dreamed it would be... Its like im using someones else's body... Jacked and Fully Shreaded!
Nevertheless... my high school female friends who are now in college have seen my photos on facebook and myspace and want me to do a male strip-tease or some exotic male flexing...
The thing is... I have never done anything like that nor have I been to a club and seen a male model doing a strip tease...
What I would REALLY appreciate is if you guys know ANY good music that i could play in the background while im performing... and also if you know any links to any male stripping tutorial....
Thanks you so very Kindly and have a blessed day!!!
and oh yea, Wish me luck! :)
Ladies I need your help! Guys your opinion is appreciated also...?
have some self respect.. you want to show off your newfound hot body? have some professional photos taken, but to strip for a bunch of honeee women/men is lowering yourself.
Reply:Haha, well done you stallion you! Lmao. Nah man, i have a suggestion. Watch "The Full Monty," it's a british comedy film about normal guys who have never tried strip teasing before and decide to do a gig in their town for money. The film's hilarious, but the music is a good place to start. After all, the film is about male strippers. Check out the soundtrack, search for "The Full Monty" on google. You may be able to find the soundtrack yourself, or the individual songs, good luck.
Reply:I think alternative rock may be fun to see a guy strip to, maybe something like Rob Zombie or the Queen of the Damned Soundtrack. Just go with whatever you feel like doing, be yourself, I think you'll have fun!
Don't worry about it so much, I think those lucky girls will just be glad enough that you are going to do that for them! :-)
Reply:You don't have to go all the way for the girls to go nuts.
Go to one of those clubs, and learn some of the moves.
Keep your speedo on to collect all those bills they will want to stuff in there.
Have fun with it, and learn to do a lap dance for those girls.
Reply:i agree with natalie your lowing your self by doing that
Reply:you shook me all night long by AC/DC would be a good one....actually, probably anything by AC/DC would be good. If you don't like them, a sorta of dancy song, just so you could really "shake things up".
Good luck!!!
Reply:First of all I hope you are not doing it for free. the music is hard to determine because I don't know your dance style. third go to a web site that show the one and only Chip ~n~ Dale dancers.
Reply:YMCA!
Reply:kekekeke
strip tease..
Reply:watchout they might be setting you up for major embarassment
Reply:just luck with that.
Reply:I was looking at that Power90X, its that good eh?
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Do you think this is ok?
My boyfriend of 7 months has always been extremely jealous. I've never really had any jealous boyfriends in the past so I don't know how to feel about this. He obviously didn't want me having any sort of communication with my ex-boyfriend (who was a good friend to me even after the relationship ended). He didn't like when my old guy friends from college would leave me myspace or facebook wall posts saying I should come visit or give them a call and what not. He no longer wanted me to hang out with my guy friends even if he was present. He didn't like when I spoke to other guys at work (we used to work together). I'm not sure if this is overboard or controlling or if most men feel this way. He explained it to me in a sense that it wasn't that he didn't trust me -- he just didn't trust anyone else. He frequently told me that he didn't want anyone 'stealing' me away from him and that sort of thing. What do you all think?
Do you think this is ok?
I hate to have to say this, but the truth usually gets someone mad at me n_n so, here goes:
He's being incredibly insecure. If he really trusted you, he would let you have your friends. Nobody would ever "steal" you without your consent, and he has to realize that. Don't let him rationalize or talk his way around it... Tell him that they are your friends and you have every right to enjoy their company!
My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. He lets me hang out with all of my friends, old and new, and he's secure enough to let me go out with them when he isn't around. And I let him hang out with his friends, as well. His ex-girlfriend has a lot of really deep issues, and I know that she wants him back, even though I know she also feels guilty because she and I have become great friends. I still let him spend time with her alone, because I know she has mental issues and needs a friend, and because I TRUST my boyfriend. If there's no trust, why have a relationship?
Now, if he were telling you to stay away from someone who was dangerous to you, or a terrible influence (such as a crackhead or some sort of serious felon who obviously wasn't showing any signs of changing) that would make sense. My boyfriend once warned me away from a new friend I had made, because he felt the guy was, "shady", and you know what? He was right!!! The guy was arrested nearby and put in jail less than 24 hours after I met him, lol.
If this guy is really "the one", are you willing to sacrifice every male friend that you have, just to spend all of the rest of your life with him only? If that's what he wants from you, it's selfish thinking. I'm sure he has his good points too, but insecurity is so huge. I think you should discuss it with him, seriously, and as soon as possible. You need to lay out the issues and set some boundaries. In the longrun, it'll really help you both to be happier in the relationship.
Relationships don't mean throwing out your identity, friends, and sense of self. They're partnerships with two people who want to spend their lives helping one another; not two people trying to magickally morph into one codependant creature :o
I hope things work out. And if he still wants you away from your friends, maybe you should take some "you" time and really try to figure out if he'd be better off as just a friend for you.
I can't speak for everyone, but personally I've found that being with a jealous person makes me feel guilty... even when I didn't DO anything! If that's the way you're starting to feel, please tell him.
Reply:i think he's a little 2 overprotective.he obviously doesnt trust u with other guys...and relationships are based on trust ...so ui think that answers ur question
Reply:Unfortunately, this is both controlling and very overboard. It sounds as if he may have some issues to deal with. Possibly he was cheated on, in the past, which has left him with this feeling.
He needs to put his trust in you; you're a big person, you can say no to anyone you feel you need to. Basically, despite what he says - even if he means it - it does boil down to trust, of you.
It can be worked through, but he sounds pretty over the top.
Reply:if he is an amazing guy, then i suggest you give your relationship another chace. wait it out and see how things go. let him know that the guys you are hanging out with are your friends and you can trust them. i have been in this situation before and i know its hard. he just has to trust you. thats whats most important. talk to him. what else could you do? just sit him down and talk it out. make sure you dont flirt. he wantss to be your number one. make him feel special.
Reply:I would be very careful about your bf because he sounds very controlling and do he talk to female friends? If so then you can have male friends.
Reply:I had a boyfriend once that was very nice and sweet except for the jealously and controlling and it ended up with him going out of control, me calling the policy, and getting a restraining order on him. I read somewhere that controlling boyfriends almost always end up abusing either verbally or physically. It is not healthy...I recommend leaving at the first sign of aggression.
Reply:A relationship is based on trust!
Also, the way he treated you, the way he had controlled you by not allowing you to speak to your ex-boyfreind, male friends, male colleague that is too much.
Even partners have their rights in choosing who they want to be freind to. he should allow you for your own confort zone. He has to give you your own space, in a relationship doesn't mean that you must follow what he said or what is like and dislike. A relationship is to "Give" and "Take". This is vice versa. So ask yourself if he does the same to you.
Reply:I think he's HIGHLY insecure and if your not careful, his possesiveness and controllingness can turn into a verbally/physically abusive relationship. I URGE you to read up on "Signs of a violent boyfriend" and google signs of a possessive mate. That is NOT healthy. U seem like you are still young, and there is no reason that you can't have friends. Granted---u have to respect the boundaries because you are in a relationship--but NO ONE should have control or say-so like he does. Please be mindful, that jealously/controllingness is NOT synonomous with LOVE. Be careful.
Reply:This man is obviously insecure. Guys like this often turn abusive either emotionally or physically..HE needs to grow up, do you want to be the one to teach him while you lose all your friends???
Do you think this is ok?
I hate to have to say this, but the truth usually gets someone mad at me n_n so, here goes:
He's being incredibly insecure. If he really trusted you, he would let you have your friends. Nobody would ever "steal" you without your consent, and he has to realize that. Don't let him rationalize or talk his way around it... Tell him that they are your friends and you have every right to enjoy their company!
My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. He lets me hang out with all of my friends, old and new, and he's secure enough to let me go out with them when he isn't around. And I let him hang out with his friends, as well. His ex-girlfriend has a lot of really deep issues, and I know that she wants him back, even though I know she also feels guilty because she and I have become great friends. I still let him spend time with her alone, because I know she has mental issues and needs a friend, and because I TRUST my boyfriend. If there's no trust, why have a relationship?
Now, if he were telling you to stay away from someone who was dangerous to you, or a terrible influence (such as a crackhead or some sort of serious felon who obviously wasn't showing any signs of changing) that would make sense. My boyfriend once warned me away from a new friend I had made, because he felt the guy was, "shady", and you know what? He was right!!! The guy was arrested nearby and put in jail less than 24 hours after I met him, lol.
If this guy is really "the one", are you willing to sacrifice every male friend that you have, just to spend all of the rest of your life with him only? If that's what he wants from you, it's selfish thinking. I'm sure he has his good points too, but insecurity is so huge. I think you should discuss it with him, seriously, and as soon as possible. You need to lay out the issues and set some boundaries. In the longrun, it'll really help you both to be happier in the relationship.
Relationships don't mean throwing out your identity, friends, and sense of self. They're partnerships with two people who want to spend their lives helping one another; not two people trying to magickally morph into one codependant creature :o
I hope things work out. And if he still wants you away from your friends, maybe you should take some "you" time and really try to figure out if he'd be better off as just a friend for you.
I can't speak for everyone, but personally I've found that being with a jealous person makes me feel guilty... even when I didn't DO anything! If that's the way you're starting to feel, please tell him.
Reply:i think he's a little 2 overprotective.he obviously doesnt trust u with other guys...and relationships are based on trust ...so ui think that answers ur question
Reply:Unfortunately, this is both controlling and very overboard. It sounds as if he may have some issues to deal with. Possibly he was cheated on, in the past, which has left him with this feeling.
He needs to put his trust in you; you're a big person, you can say no to anyone you feel you need to. Basically, despite what he says - even if he means it - it does boil down to trust, of you.
It can be worked through, but he sounds pretty over the top.
Reply:if he is an amazing guy, then i suggest you give your relationship another chace. wait it out and see how things go. let him know that the guys you are hanging out with are your friends and you can trust them. i have been in this situation before and i know its hard. he just has to trust you. thats whats most important. talk to him. what else could you do? just sit him down and talk it out. make sure you dont flirt. he wantss to be your number one. make him feel special.
Reply:I would be very careful about your bf because he sounds very controlling and do he talk to female friends? If so then you can have male friends.
Reply:I had a boyfriend once that was very nice and sweet except for the jealously and controlling and it ended up with him going out of control, me calling the policy, and getting a restraining order on him. I read somewhere that controlling boyfriends almost always end up abusing either verbally or physically. It is not healthy...I recommend leaving at the first sign of aggression.
Reply:A relationship is based on trust!
Also, the way he treated you, the way he had controlled you by not allowing you to speak to your ex-boyfreind, male friends, male colleague that is too much.
Even partners have their rights in choosing who they want to be freind to. he should allow you for your own confort zone. He has to give you your own space, in a relationship doesn't mean that you must follow what he said or what is like and dislike. A relationship is to "Give" and "Take". This is vice versa. So ask yourself if he does the same to you.
Reply:I think he's HIGHLY insecure and if your not careful, his possesiveness and controllingness can turn into a verbally/physically abusive relationship. I URGE you to read up on "Signs of a violent boyfriend" and google signs of a possessive mate. That is NOT healthy. U seem like you are still young, and there is no reason that you can't have friends. Granted---u have to respect the boundaries because you are in a relationship--but NO ONE should have control or say-so like he does. Please be mindful, that jealously/controllingness is NOT synonomous with LOVE. Be careful.
Reply:This man is obviously insecure. Guys like this often turn abusive either emotionally or physically..HE needs to grow up, do you want to be the one to teach him while you lose all your friends???
Cheated on :(?
I am 17 and pregnant i recently moved in with my bf (he was away at college) and recently i read his facebook and founf a lot and i mean a lot of things saying he hooked up and did stuff with girls and if not always getting to atleast trying several several times. I should have known there was clues like condoms in his pocket and me being pregnant we don't use them....and girls numbers and ext.... It hurts real bad i still love him but idk wat to do i want to be with him i just want to pretend it didn't happen...wat should i do. Do all guys cheat becuz i never truly thought he would do this to me i just can't believe it...please help
Cheated on :(?
Why do men lie? There are many reasons. The lie because it’s in their blood, because they think that the truth will hurt, because they don’t think it’s necessary to tell the whole thing with the details, because they want to seem better than they are, because they want to make women love them, because they are sure it’ll be better for everybody and so on. After all “why does he lie” – is not a question of that big importance. But a woman should become worried if a man starts to tell the truth. This usually means that something’s going wrong. A woman should find out the reasons for that sudden sincerity to know what to do.
When we love we are used not to see the flows of our partner or not to show that we see them. If fact those flows mean very little when there’s love in the relationships. But when it’s gone all those unpleasant details in the character, appearance or behavior start to annoy us tremendously especially because they have become so obvious after a long period of not noticing them. That’s when men start pointing on the defaults of their women in the most rude and unpleasant way. If a man doesn’t love a woman anymore he doesn’t care whether his words hurt, if he doesn’t like something he speaks about it as it is just because he can’t any reasons to stay silent or to lie about it anymore. For any woman it’s better to leave because any relationships are supposed to bring care and attention but not permanent criticism and discomfort. You may of course stay, swallow your pride, watch your self-confidence fading away, feel yourself miserable and etc. But ask yourself is that really what you want?
But of course a woman isn’t meant to quit any relationships after a couple of critical notices in her address. The reasons why her man speaks the unpleasant truth can be different. Maybe he’s simply fed up with one of her very annoying habits. He loves her and he tried not to pay attention to that feature or habit, but he’s a human being and his patience isn’t eternal. So if he burst out once that doesn’t mean that will repeat over and over again. Probably he’s already apologized a million times and said that he never wanted to hurt her. Well in this case a woman should start looking closer at herself if she doesn’t want that explosion if truth to repeat.
Neither relationships are possible without compromises. And can love make us better if we don’t want to collaborate with it?
Sometimes he seems to love and to care but also he keeps telling those unpleasant things again and again. A man may compare his girlfriend with other women and every other woman is always better than his one. He may criticize her even in public. Probably he even like it. That all means only one thing – a man doesn’t respect that woman, because when we respect someone we respect even his or her week points. And still sometimes we love the people we don’t respect. So it’s up to a woman to decide whether it’s OK for her always to play a role of such a poor-thing which is loved but treated as nothing. She may try to talk to her man, explain to him that it hurts her to hear all that truth and that usually people show love in a little different way. Maybe she should do something to gain his respect of cause it these relationships mean much for her.
Sometimes a man tells the truth about himself from the very start to show how independent and indifferent he is, to let a woman know that he doesn’t care much not about her, not about any other woman, probably not about anyone but himself at all. Do you really want someone who’s claiming he will never need you? If you love such an independent guy you of cause may try to change his mind by conceiving him that you are the one of kind but see that there’s not much respect and mutual understanding in such relationships from the beginning.
Another kind of man loving truth so very much is only a provocateur in fact. He talks much about his past, about the incredible women he had, about his sexual fantasies the main hero of which is not his girlfriend. Also he compare her with all the women around and it always turn out by he’s words that she’s almost nothing compared with her. A girl should understand that he’s only trying to tease her and to watch her reaction. She may stay imperturbable and careless about all these talk or even ask him: “If they are so good than what are you still doing here?”. And we’ll work. But at the same time she should ask herself the same question.
One more case when a man tells the truth is when he doesn’t know what to do with that truth. For example, he’s cheater on his girlfriend and told her about it because he’s too weak-willed to decide what to do. He wants his girl to think about it instead of himself.
We all were taught that it’s wrong to lie. So the truth is good, but not always. Sometimes it’s better not to say or hear a thing. Everyone is free to decide how much truth in his or her life one is able to bare.
Reply:he is cheating to u gal!!! u better leave him and abort the baby !!! he deserve it %26amp; not all guys are bad. this one is rot!!!!!
Reply:I can't pretend to know what you are going through. But since I'm only a year elder to you, I guess it'd be more or less what I'd do in this situation at your age. I think it's senseless to pretend as if nothing is wrong. On the other hand assuming that he is cheating on you without confronting him is dumb too. You need to talk it out with him and deciphering whether he's lying or not shouldn't be too difficult for you. You need to move on; for yourself and for your baby. Living in denial is the worst thing you can do to yourself. I'm sure there is someone out there who loves you for the person that you are.
Reply:No, not all guys cheat. You found your proof, now confront your boyfriend about what you've found. If you can't work it out then leave him. It's gonna take time getting over somebody you love. Don't disrespect yourself by denying the fact that he cheated on you. There are better guys out there. He probably won't even fess up to what he did. Unless he's willing to fess up, change, and treat you with respect, kick him to the curb. It's going to take a long time before he will regain the trust from you. If you don't think he'll change his ways, you HAVE to let him go. Otherwise you will be miserable. The fact that you are pregnant makes it a bit complicated. But it's also his responsibility to take care of the baby, so he will remain in your life, but don't let him get to close to your heart. Don't be naive. Don't be weak. Don't disrespect yourself. Be strong. I've been 17 before. It aches so badly when you love somebody who has cheated on you, but if you let that somebody cheat on you again and again and again.........it's your fault. I think in your heart, you know the right thing to do.
Reply:Unless you are 100% sure he's still doing this, don't jump to conclusions too fast. I'm not sure you guys would be moving in together or him being comfy with that idea if he were still cheating.
Reply:All guys don't cheat, just the selfish ones. The only thing I can tell you is that you need to leave. If you can, move back in with your parents or a friend. You can pretend this didn't happen but you won't be happy. His actions are disgusting because you're not only pregnant with his child but, he's having unprotected sex with you and having sex with other women. He could give you and your unborn baby a disease. That is selfish. You need to focus on your health and your baby right now. Leave the cheater and move on. Don't get into a big fight with him because you're pregnant. You don't need that stress. He will always be in your life because of the child but you do not have to be with him.
If he cheated once, he'll cheat again. Even if he promises he won't, he will because look at the circumstances he cheated on you under. You're young, pregnant %26amp; alone. He's scum. Do your best to move on and focus on your baby. Good luck!
Edit: Had to add this when I saw another answers. It's not your fault if he's cheating. It has NOTHING to do with what you did or didn't do. It's his own ego. Don't abort your baby either. No one can judge you, hon. It's your life. If you're sure he's cheating (and you'll know by that gut feeling), end it. Don't listen to anyone giving you negative answers on here. You're not a bad person and you don't deserve to be treated like this. Take care :)
Reply:if you care about the health of your baby and yourself you would leave him believe me i know how hard it is to leave someone you love but you just gotta know you deserve better and you can get better if that's what you want congrats and good luck
Reply:Unfortunately, a lot of guys, have no morals, at that age. You was making a terrible mistake, to be with someone at that 17. Now that you're gonna have a Child. You need to think about his/her well being. Love the Baby. And see if the Father,can become a Man. Don't take too much time. The Baby will need to see some Emotional Happiness from you. Good Luck. Prayers are on their way!
Cheated on :(?
Why do men lie? There are many reasons. The lie because it’s in their blood, because they think that the truth will hurt, because they don’t think it’s necessary to tell the whole thing with the details, because they want to seem better than they are, because they want to make women love them, because they are sure it’ll be better for everybody and so on. After all “why does he lie” – is not a question of that big importance. But a woman should become worried if a man starts to tell the truth. This usually means that something’s going wrong. A woman should find out the reasons for that sudden sincerity to know what to do.
When we love we are used not to see the flows of our partner or not to show that we see them. If fact those flows mean very little when there’s love in the relationships. But when it’s gone all those unpleasant details in the character, appearance or behavior start to annoy us tremendously especially because they have become so obvious after a long period of not noticing them. That’s when men start pointing on the defaults of their women in the most rude and unpleasant way. If a man doesn’t love a woman anymore he doesn’t care whether his words hurt, if he doesn’t like something he speaks about it as it is just because he can’t any reasons to stay silent or to lie about it anymore. For any woman it’s better to leave because any relationships are supposed to bring care and attention but not permanent criticism and discomfort. You may of course stay, swallow your pride, watch your self-confidence fading away, feel yourself miserable and etc. But ask yourself is that really what you want?
But of course a woman isn’t meant to quit any relationships after a couple of critical notices in her address. The reasons why her man speaks the unpleasant truth can be different. Maybe he’s simply fed up with one of her very annoying habits. He loves her and he tried not to pay attention to that feature or habit, but he’s a human being and his patience isn’t eternal. So if he burst out once that doesn’t mean that will repeat over and over again. Probably he’s already apologized a million times and said that he never wanted to hurt her. Well in this case a woman should start looking closer at herself if she doesn’t want that explosion if truth to repeat.
Neither relationships are possible without compromises. And can love make us better if we don’t want to collaborate with it?
Sometimes he seems to love and to care but also he keeps telling those unpleasant things again and again. A man may compare his girlfriend with other women and every other woman is always better than his one. He may criticize her even in public. Probably he even like it. That all means only one thing – a man doesn’t respect that woman, because when we respect someone we respect even his or her week points. And still sometimes we love the people we don’t respect. So it’s up to a woman to decide whether it’s OK for her always to play a role of such a poor-thing which is loved but treated as nothing. She may try to talk to her man, explain to him that it hurts her to hear all that truth and that usually people show love in a little different way. Maybe she should do something to gain his respect of cause it these relationships mean much for her.
Sometimes a man tells the truth about himself from the very start to show how independent and indifferent he is, to let a woman know that he doesn’t care much not about her, not about any other woman, probably not about anyone but himself at all. Do you really want someone who’s claiming he will never need you? If you love such an independent guy you of cause may try to change his mind by conceiving him that you are the one of kind but see that there’s not much respect and mutual understanding in such relationships from the beginning.
Another kind of man loving truth so very much is only a provocateur in fact. He talks much about his past, about the incredible women he had, about his sexual fantasies the main hero of which is not his girlfriend. Also he compare her with all the women around and it always turn out by he’s words that she’s almost nothing compared with her. A girl should understand that he’s only trying to tease her and to watch her reaction. She may stay imperturbable and careless about all these talk or even ask him: “If they are so good than what are you still doing here?”. And we’ll work. But at the same time she should ask herself the same question.
One more case when a man tells the truth is when he doesn’t know what to do with that truth. For example, he’s cheater on his girlfriend and told her about it because he’s too weak-willed to decide what to do. He wants his girl to think about it instead of himself.
We all were taught that it’s wrong to lie. So the truth is good, but not always. Sometimes it’s better not to say or hear a thing. Everyone is free to decide how much truth in his or her life one is able to bare.
Reply:he is cheating to u gal!!! u better leave him and abort the baby !!! he deserve it %26amp; not all guys are bad. this one is rot!!!!!
Reply:I can't pretend to know what you are going through. But since I'm only a year elder to you, I guess it'd be more or less what I'd do in this situation at your age. I think it's senseless to pretend as if nothing is wrong. On the other hand assuming that he is cheating on you without confronting him is dumb too. You need to talk it out with him and deciphering whether he's lying or not shouldn't be too difficult for you. You need to move on; for yourself and for your baby. Living in denial is the worst thing you can do to yourself. I'm sure there is someone out there who loves you for the person that you are.
Reply:No, not all guys cheat. You found your proof, now confront your boyfriend about what you've found. If you can't work it out then leave him. It's gonna take time getting over somebody you love. Don't disrespect yourself by denying the fact that he cheated on you. There are better guys out there. He probably won't even fess up to what he did. Unless he's willing to fess up, change, and treat you with respect, kick him to the curb. It's going to take a long time before he will regain the trust from you. If you don't think he'll change his ways, you HAVE to let him go. Otherwise you will be miserable. The fact that you are pregnant makes it a bit complicated. But it's also his responsibility to take care of the baby, so he will remain in your life, but don't let him get to close to your heart. Don't be naive. Don't be weak. Don't disrespect yourself. Be strong. I've been 17 before. It aches so badly when you love somebody who has cheated on you, but if you let that somebody cheat on you again and again and again.........it's your fault. I think in your heart, you know the right thing to do.
Reply:Unless you are 100% sure he's still doing this, don't jump to conclusions too fast. I'm not sure you guys would be moving in together or him being comfy with that idea if he were still cheating.
Reply:All guys don't cheat, just the selfish ones. The only thing I can tell you is that you need to leave. If you can, move back in with your parents or a friend. You can pretend this didn't happen but you won't be happy. His actions are disgusting because you're not only pregnant with his child but, he's having unprotected sex with you and having sex with other women. He could give you and your unborn baby a disease. That is selfish. You need to focus on your health and your baby right now. Leave the cheater and move on. Don't get into a big fight with him because you're pregnant. You don't need that stress. He will always be in your life because of the child but you do not have to be with him.
If he cheated once, he'll cheat again. Even if he promises he won't, he will because look at the circumstances he cheated on you under. You're young, pregnant %26amp; alone. He's scum. Do your best to move on and focus on your baby. Good luck!
Edit: Had to add this when I saw another answers. It's not your fault if he's cheating. It has NOTHING to do with what you did or didn't do. It's his own ego. Don't abort your baby either. No one can judge you, hon. It's your life. If you're sure he's cheating (and you'll know by that gut feeling), end it. Don't listen to anyone giving you negative answers on here. You're not a bad person and you don't deserve to be treated like this. Take care :)
Reply:if you care about the health of your baby and yourself you would leave him believe me i know how hard it is to leave someone you love but you just gotta know you deserve better and you can get better if that's what you want congrats and good luck
Reply:Unfortunately, a lot of guys, have no morals, at that age. You was making a terrible mistake, to be with someone at that 17. Now that you're gonna have a Child. You need to think about his/her well being. Love the Baby. And see if the Father,can become a Man. Don't take too much time. The Baby will need to see some Emotional Happiness from you. Good Luck. Prayers are on their way!
Why do I get friend requests from girls I don't know?
When I started college last year I created a Facebook profile so I could connect and I have about 120 friends right now.
Most of these 120 friends I know directly and I have a tendency to only request people I know personally.
But every once in a while I'll get a request from someone (almost always a girl) at my school that I don't know. I don't have the heart to deny them since we at least have one thing in common (we go to the same school). But can someone tell me why these people add me knowing that they'll probably never know or see me in the "real world"?
Why do I get friend requests from girls I don't know?
well, you're probably attractive and have a nice picture so when girls are looking to add random friends, they'll add you because they hope you'll look at their picture and want to meet up with them...
Reply:quit complaining and meet up with them.
Reply:haha that happens to me to like random people i dunno y they probably dot have alot of friends. they think its like hi5 where u add random people but facebook is for peple that u no.
Reply:Stop fishing for compliments, you're prolly sexy!!
Reply:Sounds like you're doing just fine Stud Muffin. You ought to be happy because of the complement that someone wants to befriend you. Why deny them until you find out more about them? Just use your gut feeling and wisdom about people and you should be able to separate the good ones from the bad ones. In other words, choose your friends carefully.
You'll run into some kooks out there, but you'll also run into some very nice people who will deserve your friendship.
Reply:It's your page and your choice. If you think there's potential, then accept the request. Go with what you're comfortable with, though.
Most of these 120 friends I know directly and I have a tendency to only request people I know personally.
But every once in a while I'll get a request from someone (almost always a girl) at my school that I don't know. I don't have the heart to deny them since we at least have one thing in common (we go to the same school). But can someone tell me why these people add me knowing that they'll probably never know or see me in the "real world"?
Why do I get friend requests from girls I don't know?
well, you're probably attractive and have a nice picture so when girls are looking to add random friends, they'll add you because they hope you'll look at their picture and want to meet up with them...
Reply:quit complaining and meet up with them.
Reply:haha that happens to me to like random people i dunno y they probably dot have alot of friends. they think its like hi5 where u add random people but facebook is for peple that u no.
Reply:Stop fishing for compliments, you're prolly sexy!!
Reply:Sounds like you're doing just fine Stud Muffin. You ought to be happy because of the complement that someone wants to befriend you. Why deny them until you find out more about them? Just use your gut feeling and wisdom about people and you should be able to separate the good ones from the bad ones. In other words, choose your friends carefully.
You'll run into some kooks out there, but you'll also run into some very nice people who will deserve your friendship.
Reply:It's your page and your choice. If you think there's potential, then accept the request. Go with what you're comfortable with, though.
18 year old high school senior freelance writing for a website?
I'll get straight to the point. Basically, I have written for my high school newspaper for three years, and have received much praise for my articles. I have also been looking for a part time job to earn some extra money before I go off to college. I saw an ad on Facebook for this site called Suite101.com which pays people for articles (if they get published), and I thought that it would be a nice gig for me.
The way I see it is why work at a place like Popeye's chicken when I can get paid writing about the things I love in the comfort of my own home? Does anyone have any info on these so called sites or any suggestions/advice about my consideration for pursuing a freelance writing job for this website at my age (since it seems like most freelance writers these days are older)?
18 year old high school senior freelance writing for a website?
Here's some tips on how to find freelance jobs.
http://www.ehow.com/how_2165807_paying-f...
Reply:I'm a professional copywriter and I can tell you flat out that writing from home is nowhere near as simple doing it in the "comfort of your [my] own home." I spend hours writing but then I also spend time worrying about being distracted, personal obligations, errands, etc. It's not easy.
These sites that offer to pay are a joke. Any writer worth their salt will not only write for reputable sites, they will also not accept what these sites claim to offer. So many only offer $5-25 per article. That is an insult to professional writers who have earned their credibility and have the strong portfolio to allow them to command more. I earn $15 an hour off my work and although it isn't much, with the economy being what it is, I'm willing to charge cheaply.
Build up a portfolio of your work and consider going to local newspapers and speaking to the editors. You may have a chance of getting freelance work reporting general beat stories or covering special events. It's not glamorous or wonderful, but it will get your foot in the door.
Good luck!
Reply:Not sure about the website, but go to a bookstore and buy a few "writers magazines". Last time I checked, there are several freelance jobs listed in these magazine. Good Luck!!!
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The way I see it is why work at a place like Popeye's chicken when I can get paid writing about the things I love in the comfort of my own home? Does anyone have any info on these so called sites or any suggestions/advice about my consideration for pursuing a freelance writing job for this website at my age (since it seems like most freelance writers these days are older)?
18 year old high school senior freelance writing for a website?
Here's some tips on how to find freelance jobs.
http://www.ehow.com/how_2165807_paying-f...
Reply:I'm a professional copywriter and I can tell you flat out that writing from home is nowhere near as simple doing it in the "comfort of your [my] own home." I spend hours writing but then I also spend time worrying about being distracted, personal obligations, errands, etc. It's not easy.
These sites that offer to pay are a joke. Any writer worth their salt will not only write for reputable sites, they will also not accept what these sites claim to offer. So many only offer $5-25 per article. That is an insult to professional writers who have earned their credibility and have the strong portfolio to allow them to command more. I earn $15 an hour off my work and although it isn't much, with the economy being what it is, I'm willing to charge cheaply.
Build up a portfolio of your work and consider going to local newspapers and speaking to the editors. You may have a chance of getting freelance work reporting general beat stories or covering special events. It's not glamorous or wonderful, but it will get your foot in the door.
Good luck!
Reply:Not sure about the website, but go to a bookstore and buy a few "writers magazines". Last time I checked, there are several freelance jobs listed in these magazine. Good Luck!!!
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How do i go about getting to know a person i already know?
So i know this girl, and we've talked every now and then in high school... (i was majorly shy in high school). but now we've graduated and are goin to college, i was looking at her facebook and figured, now that im a more outgoing person then i was in HS, whats stopping me from getting to know her now? so i thought about it, and it brought me to my main question of, "How do i go about getting to know a person i already know?"
How do i go about getting to know a person i already know?
maybe send her a messege saying hey remember me from high school how u been i havent seen u in a while hows life treating u i would really like to see u or maybe hang out again heres my number call me sometimes and give her ur number
Reply:how about a date?
How do i go about getting to know a person i already know?
maybe send her a messege saying hey remember me from high school how u been i havent seen u in a while hows life treating u i would really like to see u or maybe hang out again heres my number call me sometimes and give her ur number
Reply:how about a date?
Girls please help me?
There is this girl in college who I like, but we dont talk much in college. She added me yesterday in facebook , so I was thinking how can I make her like me ........ how should I chat with her, what must I talk about....
I just know one point which is;tell her how beautiful she looks in all her pics..... what else ??
Ill give u 5 stars, please help me out
Girls please help me?
Yeah maybe tell her she looks good in her pics, but nothing too full on as it may scare her off.
Make sure your facebook page has stuff about you on there your interests etc as she will prob have a look to find out some more about you.
I don't think u should send her loads of applications as this can get annoying.
Remember whatever you write on her wall will be read b all her mates and yours so you may be better off sending her a mail to her inbox.
Probably just mail her a general chit chatty message asking if she had a good weekend etc if she replies that is a good start. Then just carry on the conversation and eventually ask her if she wants to meet up with you .
Also it is a good sign that she added you as a mate, could say thanks for the add, just had a look through your photos and u look really good, what u bin up to this weekend ? or summit like that
Reply:Just be yourself and if she doesn't like you for you, that's her loss. Oh and you shouldn't want to "make" her like you. Just put yourself out there and see if she wants any. Good luck to you!
Reply:Talk generaly about college, what she is studying things like that. When you see her in college talk to her sooner or later things will get easier and then maybe you can ask her out! goodluck!
Reply:You can't force anyone to start liking you, but you can write to her on facebook, and ask her how she's doing? How her classes are going? Do you have classes together? If you do, then maybe ask if she wants to study together. Don't tell her off the bat that her pictures are beautiful because girls take that as you just want to get in their pants, especially if you say that more than a couple times. Get to know her first, and once you guys start talking then maybe bring up that you thought her pictures were nice. Later when you feel comfortable with each other and you've talked, maybe exchange numbers and meet up for coffee or lunch. That's pretty harmless. Good luck!
Reply:First, there is no 5 star dude!!!
so not a flirt type eh? no worries.. see, first rules is be calm when she is online, and then ask simple rules, hi, how are you, what u doin? see when she said what she is doin like readin, or etc.. ask her that question, what u readin and watchin etc.. then it will lead to other things!
and dont just ask questions again and again, try to tell her story of what happen to you, or your insight on something.. or an insight of whats her interest.. most of the times girls will be the one who talk, but in case she is shy.. do that!
crack jokes please.. to enlighten the mood.. makes fool of your self, thats fine dont be such a Mr. perfect, girls tend to hate that or atleast girls who i know! :)
Reply:Compliments are nice but most girls will think your just trying to get in their pants. Just talk to her about everyday things, stuff she likes and your expierences in life. Believe me, we love a man who we can relate too and loves to talk.
Best of luck
Reply:i think you should just send her a message and say something like "hey wsp?" or you might add "i always see you around but i don't talk to you that much!"
that way you are initiating the friendship and but still leaving room for her to reply.
DO NOT tell her about her pictures being beautiful right away...wait a little while. become friends with her first, on facebook. after you've been talking to her on facebook for a while talk to her in person. AFTER youve become friends in person maybe comment on her pics. just dont come on too strong.
good luck! n just keep things casual n be yourself!
Reply:ask her if she wants to get coffee, lunch or dinner with you sometime. then see where it goes from there.
Reply:Just be yourselfe she will like you for who you are and try and talk to her more just about random little things then they will turn in to big convo's and on her pics just say stuff like you look really pritty there...like always %26lt;--- stuff like that always works!
Good luck !
Reply:1st thing i would like to tell u is to stop taking advice from others in such issues.2ndly just be yourself and dont try to imitate others and regarding abt that chatting just talk abt what she is interested abt dont be ominating over her
I just know one point which is;tell her how beautiful she looks in all her pics..... what else ??
Ill give u 5 stars, please help me out
Girls please help me?
Yeah maybe tell her she looks good in her pics, but nothing too full on as it may scare her off.
Make sure your facebook page has stuff about you on there your interests etc as she will prob have a look to find out some more about you.
I don't think u should send her loads of applications as this can get annoying.
Remember whatever you write on her wall will be read b all her mates and yours so you may be better off sending her a mail to her inbox.
Probably just mail her a general chit chatty message asking if she had a good weekend etc if she replies that is a good start. Then just carry on the conversation and eventually ask her if she wants to meet up with you .
Also it is a good sign that she added you as a mate, could say thanks for the add, just had a look through your photos and u look really good, what u bin up to this weekend ? or summit like that
Reply:Just be yourself and if she doesn't like you for you, that's her loss. Oh and you shouldn't want to "make" her like you. Just put yourself out there and see if she wants any. Good luck to you!
Reply:Talk generaly about college, what she is studying things like that. When you see her in college talk to her sooner or later things will get easier and then maybe you can ask her out! goodluck!
Reply:You can't force anyone to start liking you, but you can write to her on facebook, and ask her how she's doing? How her classes are going? Do you have classes together? If you do, then maybe ask if she wants to study together. Don't tell her off the bat that her pictures are beautiful because girls take that as you just want to get in their pants, especially if you say that more than a couple times. Get to know her first, and once you guys start talking then maybe bring up that you thought her pictures were nice. Later when you feel comfortable with each other and you've talked, maybe exchange numbers and meet up for coffee or lunch. That's pretty harmless. Good luck!
Reply:First, there is no 5 star dude!!!
so not a flirt type eh? no worries.. see, first rules is be calm when she is online, and then ask simple rules, hi, how are you, what u doin? see when she said what she is doin like readin, or etc.. ask her that question, what u readin and watchin etc.. then it will lead to other things!
and dont just ask questions again and again, try to tell her story of what happen to you, or your insight on something.. or an insight of whats her interest.. most of the times girls will be the one who talk, but in case she is shy.. do that!
crack jokes please.. to enlighten the mood.. makes fool of your self, thats fine dont be such a Mr. perfect, girls tend to hate that or atleast girls who i know! :)
Reply:Compliments are nice but most girls will think your just trying to get in their pants. Just talk to her about everyday things, stuff she likes and your expierences in life. Believe me, we love a man who we can relate too and loves to talk.
Best of luck
Reply:i think you should just send her a message and say something like "hey wsp?" or you might add "i always see you around but i don't talk to you that much!"
that way you are initiating the friendship and but still leaving room for her to reply.
DO NOT tell her about her pictures being beautiful right away...wait a little while. become friends with her first, on facebook. after you've been talking to her on facebook for a while talk to her in person. AFTER youve become friends in person maybe comment on her pics. just dont come on too strong.
good luck! n just keep things casual n be yourself!
Reply:ask her if she wants to get coffee, lunch or dinner with you sometime. then see where it goes from there.
Reply:Just be yourselfe she will like you for who you are and try and talk to her more just about random little things then they will turn in to big convo's and on her pics just say stuff like you look really pritty there...like always %26lt;--- stuff like that always works!
Good luck !
Reply:1st thing i would like to tell u is to stop taking advice from others in such issues.2ndly just be yourself and dont try to imitate others and regarding abt that chatting just talk abt what she is interested abt dont be ominating over her
There's this girl...?
that I went to high school with. I graduated a year ahead of her. She's a senior this year and I'm a college freshman. Well, I got a facebook the other day and I went to look at her page and it appears like she went to prom with this guy that looks like he's in his mid twenties to early thirties. She's like 18! What should I think judging strictly by her pictures on facebook. There's not any of them kissing or anything but there are some of them dancing together (but this girl really likes to dance and she takes it very seriously). Oh yeah, did I mention I like this girl? you probly already figured that out. What do you think is goin on with her? Btw, her facebook says she is "in a relationship".
There's this girl...?
the only thing you can do is try and express your concern as a friend (so she doesnt feel attacked) (maybe she took a friend, or he looks older then u think he is) and once you clarify that...try letting her know how you feel...because if you dont show her or tell her, she'll never ever know. I put great trust in facebook for reconnecting people...it turned out well for me...so keep your head high and good luck!
Reply:maybe she went with a friend but if she has pictures of both of them and says relationship she may be dating him.....
Reply:prove to her that you are a bucket load better then this other old man.
try not to say anything about the old man, just say "you looked really beautiful in the facebook, you blew my mind when i saw you in that dress"
she'll be alll yours.
good luck man, i hope she see's you for who you are and can appreciate you
There's this girl...?
the only thing you can do is try and express your concern as a friend (so she doesnt feel attacked) (maybe she took a friend, or he looks older then u think he is) and once you clarify that...try letting her know how you feel...because if you dont show her or tell her, she'll never ever know. I put great trust in facebook for reconnecting people...it turned out well for me...so keep your head high and good luck!
Reply:maybe she went with a friend but if she has pictures of both of them and says relationship she may be dating him.....
Reply:prove to her that you are a bucket load better then this other old man.
try not to say anything about the old man, just say "you looked really beautiful in the facebook, you blew my mind when i saw you in that dress"
she'll be alll yours.
good luck man, i hope she see's you for who you are and can appreciate you
What would you do?
I knew this guy a few months ago and got along ok. Anyways we get invited to go bowling with these girls. He wants to get a little drunk first. I don't see the harm of having a couple. He downs 3/4 a bottle of three olives. Then he becomes so drunk that we have to cancle plans with the girls, whom I might add I haven't seen since. Then he barges into some random girls dorm room and flirts with them and they put make up on him and I took a couple of pictures. The rest of that night me and two of my freinds had to do all we could to keep him out of jail. And he was peeing by a lamp so it was a hard job. Then after that he puked in my car while I was driving him around because he would not listen. My freinds had given up before this happened. That being said I now have the pictures and I put them on my facebook because it was a college memory. He got mad so I took them off just because I try to be nice. I told him that I might show them to someone and he started threatenin me
What would you do?
Are you kidding me? No pun intended but this happens to "every" college kid on the planet. I've forgotten more drunks than some of you will ever remember!!! I've done exactly what you said damn near a "thousand" times. Except I might have knocked him out early(experience) so I could have fun and not baby sit. If it's still a shitty situation tell him to f**k off and remove yourself from it. If he's a true friend you already know. My friends and I have literally beaten the **** out of each other but we're still there fighting the rest of the world. You already know the answer follow your instinct(the first one, second is ALWAYS wrong!!)...
Reply:Report him to campus security.
Reply:Let the incident go. I don't think you would want someone to do the same thing to you. He seems to be sober now, and perhaps regrets behaving that way, that night. Just let it go. Don't threaten him. Let bygones be bygones.
Reply:so what's the problem?
Reply:i would get rid of this guy! why are you still around him? obviously, he's kinda whack and you seem pretty in order. . . so he pretty much deserves what's coming to him. after all, you took care of him.
but, take it from his point of view and remember that you probably would feel similar in his shoes.
Reply:If the pictures are embarassing, you shoudln't threaten to show them to anyone. I would be hecka mad. Also, you should get away from this guy, because he is bad news.
Reply:Hand him the pics (%26amp; the negatives). It's not worth getting beat up over.
Reply:Stop hanging out with this idiot. People judge you by the company you keep, and at this rate, you will never get to date any girls. In the meantime, make him pay to get your car cleaned or threaten to put the pics back on the internet.
Reply:Make giant posters and put them up all over the place.
Reply:never let anyone threaten you, lose him , quickly. Good luck.
Reply:Keep your pictures and avoid the guy. If you don't want stupid memories of yourself out there then don't act so stupid.
Reply:Please don't tell me that u are in a serious relationship with this guy. If u are then mind my advice and get out of this as soon as u can otherwise u may find urself in serious trouble someday.
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What would you do?
Are you kidding me? No pun intended but this happens to "every" college kid on the planet. I've forgotten more drunks than some of you will ever remember!!! I've done exactly what you said damn near a "thousand" times. Except I might have knocked him out early(experience) so I could have fun and not baby sit. If it's still a shitty situation tell him to f**k off and remove yourself from it. If he's a true friend you already know. My friends and I have literally beaten the **** out of each other but we're still there fighting the rest of the world. You already know the answer follow your instinct(the first one, second is ALWAYS wrong!!)...
Reply:Report him to campus security.
Reply:Let the incident go. I don't think you would want someone to do the same thing to you. He seems to be sober now, and perhaps regrets behaving that way, that night. Just let it go. Don't threaten him. Let bygones be bygones.
Reply:so what's the problem?
Reply:i would get rid of this guy! why are you still around him? obviously, he's kinda whack and you seem pretty in order. . . so he pretty much deserves what's coming to him. after all, you took care of him.
but, take it from his point of view and remember that you probably would feel similar in his shoes.
Reply:If the pictures are embarassing, you shoudln't threaten to show them to anyone. I would be hecka mad. Also, you should get away from this guy, because he is bad news.
Reply:Hand him the pics (%26amp; the negatives). It's not worth getting beat up over.
Reply:Stop hanging out with this idiot. People judge you by the company you keep, and at this rate, you will never get to date any girls. In the meantime, make him pay to get your car cleaned or threaten to put the pics back on the internet.
Reply:Make giant posters and put them up all over the place.
Reply:never let anyone threaten you, lose him , quickly. Good luck.
Reply:Keep your pictures and avoid the guy. If you don't want stupid memories of yourself out there then don't act so stupid.
Reply:Please don't tell me that u are in a serious relationship with this guy. If u are then mind my advice and get out of this as soon as u can otherwise u may find urself in serious trouble someday.
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How can I have a company sponsor my website?
Recently I have finished a website and I would like to have it advertised in different locations mainly facebook or myspace directed towards college students, but I do not have enough money to pay those companies, which is a couple thousand dollars. I have various ad banners within my website and I would like to see how I could possibly obtain a sponsorship to pay for the cost of my advertising and I would use the sponsors ads in about 80% of my ad rotations. Thank you.
How can I have a company sponsor my website?
Great question! I would say you'd need to provide some form of incentive for someone to pay to be on your new website. What are your daily stats on visitors? How are you planning to draw more customers to your website so that my banner is seen for a hight ROI (return on investment)? And what sorta website is it?
These are a few questions. You can draw in sponsorship from your target market by networking on myspace. You can find people who will be of interest. I've obtain some great alliances in a short time on myspace. Check me out at www.myspace.com/wontbedenied.
Hope you have found some value in what I've shared.
Peace,
C.F. Jackson
http://www.WontBeDenied.com
Won't Be Denied! Because What YOU Want MATTERS
Reply:When you will recieve a great answer, please email me, i have also this Q.
But first try to submit for free your site at free submit sites %26amp; free classifieds.
Reply:what is your website address?
How can I have a company sponsor my website?
Great question! I would say you'd need to provide some form of incentive for someone to pay to be on your new website. What are your daily stats on visitors? How are you planning to draw more customers to your website so that my banner is seen for a hight ROI (return on investment)? And what sorta website is it?
These are a few questions. You can draw in sponsorship from your target market by networking on myspace. You can find people who will be of interest. I've obtain some great alliances in a short time on myspace. Check me out at www.myspace.com/wontbedenied.
Hope you have found some value in what I've shared.
Peace,
C.F. Jackson
http://www.WontBeDenied.com
Won't Be Denied! Because What YOU Want MATTERS
Reply:When you will recieve a great answer, please email me, i have also this Q.
But first try to submit for free your site at free submit sites %26amp; free classifieds.
Reply:what is your website address?
What does this mean?
If you are single and looking for a relationship, then you may be bowled off your feet. what are your opinions on this?
This is in my horoscope today.
I have also been emailing this guy back and forth through facebook. He goes to my college, we never had any conversations outside of facebook not in any of my classes but we are in the same club together. He's the president of it and I'm just a general member. In one of my last emails I asked him if he wanted to hang out next weekend because i'm going out of town this weekend. he replied back saying umm maybe and then he said rushing things aren't we. I just want to get to know him and i'm not sure if he is interested or not, he does reply back fairly quickly to my emails like within the same day if that shows he is interested or not. hasn't really asked for my number yet either. maybe he wants to take it slow which is unusual because i'm used to guys wanting my number. thoughts on this. thanks
What does this mean?
Play it cool. Let him chase you. If he senses that you are needy he will totally avoid you.
Reply:I think the rushing things aren't we comment was just him being sarcastic don't read to much into it or his other behaviore either. I would cool my jets for a little while and see how it pans out. I would make plans with my girls to hang out somewhere next weekend since he didn;t get back to you. Then email him and say you didn't get back to me about next weekend but in case your interested we will back at so, and so.
Reply:Just take your time and get to know him first and just because he goes to the same school or belongs to the same club you must remember you did meet him on-line . He could be anyone just be careful and take your time .
This is in my horoscope today.
I have also been emailing this guy back and forth through facebook. He goes to my college, we never had any conversations outside of facebook not in any of my classes but we are in the same club together. He's the president of it and I'm just a general member. In one of my last emails I asked him if he wanted to hang out next weekend because i'm going out of town this weekend. he replied back saying umm maybe and then he said rushing things aren't we. I just want to get to know him and i'm not sure if he is interested or not, he does reply back fairly quickly to my emails like within the same day if that shows he is interested or not. hasn't really asked for my number yet either. maybe he wants to take it slow which is unusual because i'm used to guys wanting my number. thoughts on this. thanks
What does this mean?
Play it cool. Let him chase you. If he senses that you are needy he will totally avoid you.
Reply:I think the rushing things aren't we comment was just him being sarcastic don't read to much into it or his other behaviore either. I would cool my jets for a little while and see how it pans out. I would make plans with my girls to hang out somewhere next weekend since he didn;t get back to you. Then email him and say you didn't get back to me about next weekend but in case your interested we will back at so, and so.
Reply:Just take your time and get to know him first and just because he goes to the same school or belongs to the same club you must remember you did meet him on-line . He could be anyone just be careful and take your time .
What should I do???
There is this guy on facebook who goes to my college
I think he's pretty cute.
I'd like to meet him.
My one friend is also friends with him.
Would it be weird if I added him on facebook??
he has no idea who I am or anything
and how would I start talking to him??
What should I do???
hit him up on facebook and take it from there.
Reply:Say hi and you should talk to him in person! first!
Reply:If you have a mutual friend get her/him to introduce you to the guy. Then go from there.
Reply:yeah go ahead an facebook him, its an icebreaker. but dont go all crasy ansend him stuff all the time he'll think thats weird, just... be subtle about it, afterf fcebooking about a week, ask your friend to introduce yourselfs.
Reply:well u should meet him and talk 2 him then from there ask him if he wants 2 be ur freind on facebook
Reply:no it wouldn't be weird he might like it, that could be a way to get you two to start talking
Reply:No, it wouldn't be weird.
Just add him, and write on his wall, something like
"heyy, i saw you on my friend's profile and thought you seemed pretty cool. have i seen you around school?"
or somethinggg like that.
Then just kind of ask how his day has been, or what his interests are.
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Reply:You should talk to him in person a few times...after you guys have talked a couple of times then add him...and your friend knowing him is a plus...it's another reason to talk to him or that could make it easier to talk to him.
I think he's pretty cute.
I'd like to meet him.
My one friend is also friends with him.
Would it be weird if I added him on facebook??
he has no idea who I am or anything
and how would I start talking to him??
What should I do???
hit him up on facebook and take it from there.
Reply:Say hi and you should talk to him in person! first!
Reply:If you have a mutual friend get her/him to introduce you to the guy. Then go from there.
Reply:yeah go ahead an facebook him, its an icebreaker. but dont go all crasy ansend him stuff all the time he'll think thats weird, just... be subtle about it, afterf fcebooking about a week, ask your friend to introduce yourselfs.
Reply:well u should meet him and talk 2 him then from there ask him if he wants 2 be ur freind on facebook
Reply:no it wouldn't be weird he might like it, that could be a way to get you two to start talking
Reply:No, it wouldn't be weird.
Just add him, and write on his wall, something like
"heyy, i saw you on my friend's profile and thought you seemed pretty cool. have i seen you around school?"
or somethinggg like that.
Then just kind of ask how his day has been, or what his interests are.
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Reply:You should talk to him in person a few times...after you guys have talked a couple of times then add him...and your friend knowing him is a plus...it's another reason to talk to him or that could make it easier to talk to him.
This guy who used to have a crush on me?
left for college but now im reeeally interested in him %26amp; i think he knows....were friends on facebook %26amp; i asked him how college is goin %26amp; he told me its amazing %26amp; doesnt know if he'll ever make it home....what can i say in response thats kinda flirty but not too desperate....or should i jus not say anything?
This guy who used to have a crush on me?
Ask him to come back one weekend so you two can hang out. If he shows up, then that would be a good moment to let him know how you feel. If he doesn't come, then he is no longer "crushing" on you and you shouldn't push the subject anymore. Just stay friends. If this is his first year in college, I hate to tell you most guys don't want to jump into anything serious once they get to college because he's going to be meeting sooo many girls. A lot of guys like to stay single, particularly first year freshman because they know there are going to be "opportunities" that they won't want to pass up that they would have to if they were in a relationship. Although many guys in college can be good partners, many tend to really take in campus life.. if you know what I mean. But if he shows up let him know whats on your heart and take it from there.
Reply:I'm afraid to say that it sounds like this guy has moved on from the days of crushing over you. He has made a new life for himself which is obviously just the beginning for him, and much as he probably enjoys having your attention, it doesn't sound like he has any plans to pick up with you in the future. I think he is telling you plainly that you had your chance, but you blew it.
Reply:You don't you invite yourself up for a visit and see what he says, maybe something like I was thinking about going back to school and I would like to see the campus. If he still likes you he will be all over that.
Reply:He probably will never make it home is a hint that he may have found someone and fallen in love. He may no longer be interested. Why else would he find it amazing? Good yes....but amazing??
Reply:If u wanna be flirty say something like..... "Well if u come back don't forget to visit me' =)
Reply:hm... just wait for a bit.. then make a first step!! But dont make anything 2 obvios.. lol Just make it more in the friends way.... Good luck :)
Reply:this may be a case of you snooze you lose.
Reply:just talk to him and be friends.if he likes you then you should just ask him out..start making some plans we your not busy.just go for it.just flirt and see what happens.just dont be nervous...hes probably nervous just as much as you.but just stay calm and dont lose connection with each other.try getting each others phone numbers.but dont be afraid to say something flirty.get to know each other more if you have to,but stick with the flow.or you never know maybe he might still like you a little bit and we will ask you out for a date,or you can try to ask him.
hope everything goes well!:)
Reply:"you could be having a lot of fun if you were home right now..."
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This guy who used to have a crush on me?
Ask him to come back one weekend so you two can hang out. If he shows up, then that would be a good moment to let him know how you feel. If he doesn't come, then he is no longer "crushing" on you and you shouldn't push the subject anymore. Just stay friends. If this is his first year in college, I hate to tell you most guys don't want to jump into anything serious once they get to college because he's going to be meeting sooo many girls. A lot of guys like to stay single, particularly first year freshman because they know there are going to be "opportunities" that they won't want to pass up that they would have to if they were in a relationship. Although many guys in college can be good partners, many tend to really take in campus life.. if you know what I mean. But if he shows up let him know whats on your heart and take it from there.
Reply:I'm afraid to say that it sounds like this guy has moved on from the days of crushing over you. He has made a new life for himself which is obviously just the beginning for him, and much as he probably enjoys having your attention, it doesn't sound like he has any plans to pick up with you in the future. I think he is telling you plainly that you had your chance, but you blew it.
Reply:You don't you invite yourself up for a visit and see what he says, maybe something like I was thinking about going back to school and I would like to see the campus. If he still likes you he will be all over that.
Reply:He probably will never make it home is a hint that he may have found someone and fallen in love. He may no longer be interested. Why else would he find it amazing? Good yes....but amazing??
Reply:If u wanna be flirty say something like..... "Well if u come back don't forget to visit me' =)
Reply:hm... just wait for a bit.. then make a first step!! But dont make anything 2 obvios.. lol Just make it more in the friends way.... Good luck :)
Reply:this may be a case of you snooze you lose.
Reply:just talk to him and be friends.if he likes you then you should just ask him out..start making some plans we your not busy.just go for it.just flirt and see what happens.just dont be nervous...hes probably nervous just as much as you.but just stay calm and dont lose connection with each other.try getting each others phone numbers.but dont be afraid to say something flirty.get to know each other more if you have to,but stick with the flow.or you never know maybe he might still like you a little bit and we will ask you out for a date,or you can try to ask him.
hope everything goes well!:)
Reply:"you could be having a lot of fun if you were home right now..."
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How to let down someone who is waaay to attatched?
I met a guy through a friend in may (end of the semester) and he seemed cool. we hung out one other time adn talk online. since it is summertime, i went back home and he went back to korea. he messages me everyday and texts me almost everyday. he also stalks me on facebook (like myspace but for college) and my friends and asks sooo many questions about me and other guys who write on my wall and who i have pictures with. he is getting way too atatched and remember, we have only met in person twice! i dont know how to let him down easily becasue when school does start up again, i dont want him to think that we're in a relationship or anything. i want to be free in college. help!!!!!!!!
How to let down someone who is waaay to attatched?
Just tell him that he's making you uncomfortable with the stuff he does, and that you want him to back off and stop asking prying questions about your personal life. If he still stalks you after you've told him then I would just flat out avoid him and not talk to him because that's just creepy.
Reply:You probably just need to be honest with him. Honesty works best at all times. Which is better? For him to think that you are together and maybe dating and then eventually be hurt by the fact that you aren't, or that you will tell him now how you feel (write an email to him) and he will probably ending up being hurt no matter what, but by being honest you have done the right thing. Nothing good will come out of the fact that you will wait. He also has the right to find someone who likes him and wants to be with him. Instead of just thinking that he is with someone and who doesn't like him the same way as he likes you.
Sometimes life isn't easy but one thing we need to learn is to never hurt someone intentionally, especially when emotions are involved. That is how we get less trustful when people are not honest with their true feelings and we believe things that aren't true.
Do the right thing and just tell him how you feel. Honesty is never wrong.
Reply:First calm down. You need to understand that this guys feelings can be hurt. Let him down gently and be cool. Be honest and be straight tell him the truth. Tell him that you just want to be friends.
Reply:He's not asking to be let down easy. In fact, he's begging for someone to be cruel. Nip it, because with this guy it's hard to read between the "text" lines. Tell him he is driving you crazy with all the personal questions which I would make sure he knew was none of his business. Just tell him to stop. Can you get a new number?
How to let down someone who is waaay to attatched?
Just tell him that he's making you uncomfortable with the stuff he does, and that you want him to back off and stop asking prying questions about your personal life. If he still stalks you after you've told him then I would just flat out avoid him and not talk to him because that's just creepy.
Reply:You probably just need to be honest with him. Honesty works best at all times. Which is better? For him to think that you are together and maybe dating and then eventually be hurt by the fact that you aren't, or that you will tell him now how you feel (write an email to him) and he will probably ending up being hurt no matter what, but by being honest you have done the right thing. Nothing good will come out of the fact that you will wait. He also has the right to find someone who likes him and wants to be with him. Instead of just thinking that he is with someone and who doesn't like him the same way as he likes you.
Sometimes life isn't easy but one thing we need to learn is to never hurt someone intentionally, especially when emotions are involved. That is how we get less trustful when people are not honest with their true feelings and we believe things that aren't true.
Do the right thing and just tell him how you feel. Honesty is never wrong.
Reply:First calm down. You need to understand that this guys feelings can be hurt. Let him down gently and be cool. Be honest and be straight tell him the truth. Tell him that you just want to be friends.
Reply:He's not asking to be let down easy. In fact, he's begging for someone to be cruel. Nip it, because with this guy it's hard to read between the "text" lines. Tell him he is driving you crazy with all the personal questions which I would make sure he knew was none of his business. Just tell him to stop. Can you get a new number?
HELP!!!!! it seems like my boyfriend of 2 years is hiding our relationship???
hi, my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now. we both went to the
same college, but he just graduated last may. i am 19 he is 23. the people who
matter...like his entire family, and his closest friends know me and loves me.
but it seems like other than that...no one else knows. girls will flirt with
him, but none of them or anyone else for that matter who attend our university
know thaat we are in a relationship. he says that as long as his parents, and
the rest of his family and his friends know, and my family and friends, then the
others don't count. he claims that he doesnt like alot of people in his
business. other than the girls flirting with him almost everyday, he treats me
extremely well. when we were in school, we went out every weekend and
practically lived together. but the only thing thats bothring me is...recently
he became a member of "Facebook" an online network for college students, and he
refuses to put that he is in a relationship with me on there
(not that it matters..i just don't want to feel like I'm being hidden..thats
the worst feeling in the world!). and to top it off, he erased a comment i wrote
on his wall calling him a little pet name that i have called him for the past 2
years. but yet, girls send him messages and write on his wall all day, and no
matter what they write, he leaves it up there and only erases mine (and that is
not the 1st time he has done that). one girl even calls him her superman...and
he doesnt erase that. i feel like i'm just good for him when we are in private,
with his friends, or with his family. do you think that i am over-reacting??? i
try to respect that he is a fairly private person, but erasing my comments and
leaving the other girl's comments up there just makes me think that he is hiding
something. i really love him and i know he loves me too, but what do you think?
i realy need advice asap!!!!!!!!
HELP!!!!! it seems like my boyfriend of 2 years is hiding our relationship???
He is testing the boundaries of his relationship with you. He doesn't have to wear a sign saying he is taken but to act like he is single and free when he is on this "Facebook" is something that has to be nipped in the bud.
I can see where he might want to keep the pet name you use for him private. For heavens sake, I call my husband and my son all kinds of pet names that would humiliate them in public. However, it seems that he is trying to "act" like an online single. This does not mean that he does not love you. It means he is testing the waters. If he was my boyfriend I would play the same game. He wants to be an online single then you can become a member of "Facebook" and pretend to be single as well. What's good for the goose is good for the gander...
You can also come clean with him...tell him that he has really hurt your feelings by deleting your comments and leaving other girls comments up. If he says it is because he is trying to keep his private life private then tell him you respect that but he needs to compromise. If he doesn't want you to post intimate comments because they are too personal and real then ask him to honor you by at least admitting that he is in a serious relationship.
If he still wants to pretend that he is single then tell him "how about let's not pretend...how about we take a break and see what it would be like to date other people". You may not want to do this but you may have to risk it. It is up to you.
Reply:I think you are 19.
Reply:It sounds to me the boy has an issue and needs a reality check make him think. Don't give in give him the facts and if he doesn't like it then he isn't worth your time you can find some one better for you one who will scream from the roof tops that he is with you and loves you, and won't erase your comments from the wall and won't let some other chick call him her superman.
That would really bother me to so i understand how you feel its not cool. I hope everything works in your favor.
Reply:Sweetie, during college years and after, people often change a lot. I hate to burst your bubble, but could it be that he is getting tired of your and his relationship and wants to date other girls?
He is 23 years old now, may be taking a serious look at his relationship with you, life in general, and checking out what's on the playing field.
You, yourself should not be so immersed in one person that you have no other life. Expand your horizons also.
Reply:DANNG! TWO YEARS? How u keep ur relationship lasts that long? anyway, just forget him, he aint worth ur time, but what do i know? I didn't even read anything u wrote except da headline!
Reply:it sounds to me that he IS hiding you because he only hides you from other girls??? if that is the case then he is obviously looking to find a better girl and just keeping you so he won't be lonely. dump him
Reply:If you love him and he loves you, then you need to sit down and have a heart to heart. Tell him that this bothering you. Ask him why he doesn't want anyone knowing that you guys are in a relationship other than his family and close friends. No, ask him why he doesn't want other women knowing that you are in a relationship. I would think that he is hiding something also. So talk to him and hopefully he will be honest with you. Good Luck!
Reply:do you really need the brutal truth move on girl he is wasting you valuable time
Reply:your semon is too long. talk with him, tell him all what you want and how you want them, then always listen to him
same college, but he just graduated last may. i am 19 he is 23. the people who
matter...like his entire family, and his closest friends know me and loves me.
but it seems like other than that...no one else knows. girls will flirt with
him, but none of them or anyone else for that matter who attend our university
know thaat we are in a relationship. he says that as long as his parents, and
the rest of his family and his friends know, and my family and friends, then the
others don't count. he claims that he doesnt like alot of people in his
business. other than the girls flirting with him almost everyday, he treats me
extremely well. when we were in school, we went out every weekend and
practically lived together. but the only thing thats bothring me is...recently
he became a member of "Facebook" an online network for college students, and he
refuses to put that he is in a relationship with me on there
(not that it matters..i just don't want to feel like I'm being hidden..thats
the worst feeling in the world!). and to top it off, he erased a comment i wrote
on his wall calling him a little pet name that i have called him for the past 2
years. but yet, girls send him messages and write on his wall all day, and no
matter what they write, he leaves it up there and only erases mine (and that is
not the 1st time he has done that). one girl even calls him her superman...and
he doesnt erase that. i feel like i'm just good for him when we are in private,
with his friends, or with his family. do you think that i am over-reacting??? i
try to respect that he is a fairly private person, but erasing my comments and
leaving the other girl's comments up there just makes me think that he is hiding
something. i really love him and i know he loves me too, but what do you think?
i realy need advice asap!!!!!!!!
HELP!!!!! it seems like my boyfriend of 2 years is hiding our relationship???
He is testing the boundaries of his relationship with you. He doesn't have to wear a sign saying he is taken but to act like he is single and free when he is on this "Facebook" is something that has to be nipped in the bud.
I can see where he might want to keep the pet name you use for him private. For heavens sake, I call my husband and my son all kinds of pet names that would humiliate them in public. However, it seems that he is trying to "act" like an online single. This does not mean that he does not love you. It means he is testing the waters. If he was my boyfriend I would play the same game. He wants to be an online single then you can become a member of "Facebook" and pretend to be single as well. What's good for the goose is good for the gander...
You can also come clean with him...tell him that he has really hurt your feelings by deleting your comments and leaving other girls comments up. If he says it is because he is trying to keep his private life private then tell him you respect that but he needs to compromise. If he doesn't want you to post intimate comments because they are too personal and real then ask him to honor you by at least admitting that he is in a serious relationship.
If he still wants to pretend that he is single then tell him "how about let's not pretend...how about we take a break and see what it would be like to date other people". You may not want to do this but you may have to risk it. It is up to you.
Reply:I think you are 19.
Reply:It sounds to me the boy has an issue and needs a reality check make him think. Don't give in give him the facts and if he doesn't like it then he isn't worth your time you can find some one better for you one who will scream from the roof tops that he is with you and loves you, and won't erase your comments from the wall and won't let some other chick call him her superman.
That would really bother me to so i understand how you feel its not cool. I hope everything works in your favor.
Reply:Sweetie, during college years and after, people often change a lot. I hate to burst your bubble, but could it be that he is getting tired of your and his relationship and wants to date other girls?
He is 23 years old now, may be taking a serious look at his relationship with you, life in general, and checking out what's on the playing field.
You, yourself should not be so immersed in one person that you have no other life. Expand your horizons also.
Reply:DANNG! TWO YEARS? How u keep ur relationship lasts that long? anyway, just forget him, he aint worth ur time, but what do i know? I didn't even read anything u wrote except da headline!
Reply:it sounds to me that he IS hiding you because he only hides you from other girls??? if that is the case then he is obviously looking to find a better girl and just keeping you so he won't be lonely. dump him
Reply:If you love him and he loves you, then you need to sit down and have a heart to heart. Tell him that this bothering you. Ask him why he doesn't want anyone knowing that you guys are in a relationship other than his family and close friends. No, ask him why he doesn't want other women knowing that you are in a relationship. I would think that he is hiding something also. So talk to him and hopefully he will be honest with you. Good Luck!
Reply:do you really need the brutal truth move on girl he is wasting you valuable time
Reply:your semon is too long. talk with him, tell him all what you want and how you want them, then always listen to him
Is she interested in friendship or more??
An old friend from college kept messaging me on facebook. I had asked her out, and she stood me up. After four messages, I told her the whole truth about how I liked her and felt rejected but enjoyed our friendship, and she replied that she felt bad about what she did. Anyway, she said she enjoyed the friendship and admired me but did not know how she felt about me and pushed me away because she naturally does that to anyone who gets close. She has been hurt a lot in the past, but she said she is healing from those hurts! She also appreciates an open and honest friendship. Might she be hoping for more than friendship over time?
Is she interested in friendship or more??
Too much baggage. Run. There are a zillion fish in the sea. Get over the one-itus and move on. It sounds like I am being harsh but trust me - we have all been there....the what could be...or what could have been....path. Go out there and get yourself a baker's dozen and let me know what you think of her then...peace!
Reply:There are many situation in life, from which it is not possible to come up early. It takes some time to come up, but to be frank she is interested in your friendship and expects more in part of the life. Dont leave her in the part of life, as she is already hurt by many past experiences.
Reply:The answer to your question would have to be-No- If she was interested in something more than just friendship why would she want to waste any more time not being with you in a loving couple way.
Reply:it would be better for her to come to u instead of u because u might freak her out and u dont want that. be aloof with her and maybe she might come around but just let her come to u. when she is ready she will let u know
Reply:Over time it can develope into more, sounds like shes trying to work thru her problems. Try starting slow and maybe go for coffee or drinks as friends (let her know as friends) and just talk get to know each other.
Is she interested in friendship or more??
Too much baggage. Run. There are a zillion fish in the sea. Get over the one-itus and move on. It sounds like I am being harsh but trust me - we have all been there....the what could be...or what could have been....path. Go out there and get yourself a baker's dozen and let me know what you think of her then...peace!
Reply:There are many situation in life, from which it is not possible to come up early. It takes some time to come up, but to be frank she is interested in your friendship and expects more in part of the life. Dont leave her in the part of life, as she is already hurt by many past experiences.
Reply:The answer to your question would have to be-No- If she was interested in something more than just friendship why would she want to waste any more time not being with you in a loving couple way.
Reply:it would be better for her to come to u instead of u because u might freak her out and u dont want that. be aloof with her and maybe she might come around but just let her come to u. when she is ready she will let u know
Reply:Over time it can develope into more, sounds like shes trying to work thru her problems. Try starting slow and maybe go for coffee or drinks as friends (let her know as friends) and just talk get to know each other.
Is she interested in friendship or more??
An old friend from college kept messaging me on facebook. I had asked her out, and she stood me up. After four messages, I told her the whole truth about how I liked her and felt rejected but enjoyed our friendship, and she replied that she felt bad about what she did. Anyway, she said she enjoyed the friendship and admired me but did not know how she felt about me and pushed me away because she naturally does that to anyone who gets close. She has been hurt a lot in the past, but she said she is healing from those hurts! She also appreciates an open and honest friendship. Might she be hoping for more than friendship over time?
Is she interested in friendship or more??
ummmm well im my personal opinion theres playing hard to get and then theres also pretending to be hard to get through no interest in the person.
does she have your phone number? if so why didnt she fone you and say she wasnt going to see you?
and also if she said she admired you... well its not much of a compliament.
dont jump into the deep end though, i cant stand it when some one says that they like me after only just speaking to them.
Things need time and in time things will heal too. so if you do really like her, time is all you need just be there for her :D
Reply:i think she would..just try to win her heart and let her heal up..dont get too pressed about it and pressure her...but at the same time dont wait too much for her
Reply:i would say be her friend and be supportive, dont keep asking her if shes ready for something or telling her how you feel so strongly because that can scare people off. if she wants you she will give you signs and maybe tell you, and worse comes to worse you could just end up bieng friends, but if you come on too strong you could not have that either.
Reply:leave...now..u say her....go baby...go hell...
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Is she interested in friendship or more??
ummmm well im my personal opinion theres playing hard to get and then theres also pretending to be hard to get through no interest in the person.
does she have your phone number? if so why didnt she fone you and say she wasnt going to see you?
and also if she said she admired you... well its not much of a compliament.
dont jump into the deep end though, i cant stand it when some one says that they like me after only just speaking to them.
Things need time and in time things will heal too. so if you do really like her, time is all you need just be there for her :D
Reply:i think she would..just try to win her heart and let her heal up..dont get too pressed about it and pressure her...but at the same time dont wait too much for her
Reply:i would say be her friend and be supportive, dont keep asking her if shes ready for something or telling her how you feel so strongly because that can scare people off. if she wants you she will give you signs and maybe tell you, and worse comes to worse you could just end up bieng friends, but if you come on too strong you could not have that either.
Reply:leave...now..u say her....go baby...go hell...
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I got caught flirting what can i do to save our relationship?
I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and im sure i am in love with her and would love to spend the rest of my life with her. I recentley went off to college, and also created a facebook account. I began talking with people that i graduated highschool with and started flirting with a few girls from back home. I had and have no intentions of ever cheating on this girl and most of the girls i was flirting with i stoped talking to before she even caught me. I am deepley in love with this girl and she used to feel the same way. She finds it impossable to forgive me which i understand and she dosn't feel the same way she used to about me. I have taken her out and bought her everything i can think of to show her how much she means to me. I even made a scrap with some of our memories in it for christmas to show her that she really is my whole world. We are still having problems. What can i do to make things better between us?
I got caught flirting what can i do to save our relationship?
You want to wed this girl, yet you flirt with other girls? No offense, but it sounds like you have no clue what you really want.
Reply:Okay; I agree too. It mseems like your heart is going seperate ways. First you want this then you want this. Think it through if you really really truly deeply love her no one else matters. No one lse can get in the way. No one else matter except her. Flirtign with others when you wanna be with her isnt the right way to go. Focus on her. Have your mind set on her %26amp;%26amp; dont lose hope.
I got caught flirting what can i do to save our relationship?
You want to wed this girl, yet you flirt with other girls? No offense, but it sounds like you have no clue what you really want.
Reply:Okay; I agree too. It mseems like your heart is going seperate ways. First you want this then you want this. Think it through if you really really truly deeply love her no one else matters. No one lse can get in the way. No one else matter except her. Flirtign with others when you wanna be with her isnt the right way to go. Focus on her. Have your mind set on her %26amp;%26amp; dont lose hope.
Guy friend made me a mix CD, now I'm getting a mixed message? an I'm not sure how I feel?
There are some songs that made me think he likes me.
"Trust me it's amazing" -written on CD
_SONG LIST_
asleep on a sunbeam-Belle %26amp;sebastian
tilly and the wall-Bessa
Mr. tambourine man-Bob dylan
Human after all- Daft Punk
I used to dance with my daddy- Datarock
Yoshiimi Battles the Pink Robots-the flaming lips
*Do You realize- the flaming lips
*The luckiest Guy on the lower East Side- the magnetic fields
*Rock with you- Michel Jackson
*I wanna be your Lover- Prince
*Cabron-Red hot chili peppers
I'm shakin' -Rooney
what ever Happened- the strokes
* are ones I might be reading into too much
I used to like him but he did this messed up thing to me before we graduated last year. We didn't talk for awhile but when we both went to college we started talking over facebook again. He explained what he did to me and was really sorry. I am over him and am happy that I got a good guy friend back. He offered to make me this cd and gave it to me before I left a get-together we were at.
Guy friend made me a mix CD, now I'm getting a mixed message? an I'm not sure how I feel?
Um ... this is not really very subtle. Especially a song like, "I want to be your lover." And ... while I realize women make mix CDs for their friends, men almost never do.
So ... the best thing to do, probably, if you want him to remain your friend is play dense. Men also have very fragile egos.
"Trust me it's amazing" -written on CD
_SONG LIST_
asleep on a sunbeam-Belle %26amp;sebastian
tilly and the wall-Bessa
Mr. tambourine man-Bob dylan
Human after all- Daft Punk
I used to dance with my daddy- Datarock
Yoshiimi Battles the Pink Robots-the flaming lips
*Do You realize- the flaming lips
*The luckiest Guy on the lower East Side- the magnetic fields
*Rock with you- Michel Jackson
*I wanna be your Lover- Prince
*Cabron-Red hot chili peppers
I'm shakin' -Rooney
what ever Happened- the strokes
* are ones I might be reading into too much
I used to like him but he did this messed up thing to me before we graduated last year. We didn't talk for awhile but when we both went to college we started talking over facebook again. He explained what he did to me and was really sorry. I am over him and am happy that I got a good guy friend back. He offered to make me this cd and gave it to me before I left a get-together we were at.
Guy friend made me a mix CD, now I'm getting a mixed message? an I'm not sure how I feel?
Um ... this is not really very subtle. Especially a song like, "I want to be your lover." And ... while I realize women make mix CDs for their friends, men almost never do.
So ... the best thing to do, probably, if you want him to remain your friend is play dense. Men also have very fragile egos.
Guy friend made me a mix CD, now I'm getting a mixed message?
There are some songs that made me think he likes me.
"Trust me it's amazing" -written on CD
_SONG LIST_
asleep on a sunbeam-Belle %26amp;sebastian
tilly and the wall-Bessa
Mr. tambourine man-Bob dylan
Human after all- Daft Punk
I used to dance with my daddy- Datarock
Yoshiimi Battles the Pink Robots-the flaming lips
*Do You realize- the flaming lips
*The luckiest Guy on the lower East Side- the magnetic fields
*Rock with you- Michel Jackson
*I wanna be your Lover- Prince
*Cabron-Red hot chili peppers
I'm shakin' -Rooney
what ever Happened- the strokes
* are ones I might be reading into too much
I used to like him but he did this messed up thing to me before we graduated last year. We didn't talk for awhile but when we both went to college we started talking over facebook again. He explained what he did to me and was really sorry. I am over him and am happy that I got a good guy friend back. He offered to make me this cd and gave it to me before I left a get-together we were at.
Guy friend made me a mix CD, now I'm getting a mixed message?
yea i think he is sending you a liltle signal...lol
but if u dont feel the same tell him why...cus its not worth being with him and hurting him when he finds out you dont feel the same way he does...believe me it hurts..
so just tell him u only see him as a friend if thast how u feel about him
Reply:I agree with emar. If a boy really like a girl that much he'll say and do whatever he has to with the end goal of changing her mind, or somehow slipping into a relationship through the backdoor. He's the supportive friend. She has a bad night. She comes to him for support and he's very gentle and tender and she tells him she loves him and wants to have his babies. That's basically how men think. And he'll lie through his teeth and hold back his tears to keep that possibility alive. I've done it for years at a time. It's brutal to cut him off at the knees now. But you know why it's better for him? Because the sooner he works through the stages of loss - mours you, hates you, comes back and tries again, gets embarassed and just hates you some more, accepts you - the sooner he can move on to somebody who might make him happy.
"Trust me it's amazing" -written on CD
_SONG LIST_
asleep on a sunbeam-Belle %26amp;sebastian
tilly and the wall-Bessa
Mr. tambourine man-Bob dylan
Human after all- Daft Punk
I used to dance with my daddy- Datarock
Yoshiimi Battles the Pink Robots-the flaming lips
*Do You realize- the flaming lips
*The luckiest Guy on the lower East Side- the magnetic fields
*Rock with you- Michel Jackson
*I wanna be your Lover- Prince
*Cabron-Red hot chili peppers
I'm shakin' -Rooney
what ever Happened- the strokes
* are ones I might be reading into too much
I used to like him but he did this messed up thing to me before we graduated last year. We didn't talk for awhile but when we both went to college we started talking over facebook again. He explained what he did to me and was really sorry. I am over him and am happy that I got a good guy friend back. He offered to make me this cd and gave it to me before I left a get-together we were at.
Guy friend made me a mix CD, now I'm getting a mixed message?
yea i think he is sending you a liltle signal...lol
but if u dont feel the same tell him why...cus its not worth being with him and hurting him when he finds out you dont feel the same way he does...believe me it hurts..
so just tell him u only see him as a friend if thast how u feel about him
Reply:I agree with emar. If a boy really like a girl that much he'll say and do whatever he has to with the end goal of changing her mind, or somehow slipping into a relationship through the backdoor. He's the supportive friend. She has a bad night. She comes to him for support and he's very gentle and tender and she tells him she loves him and wants to have his babies. That's basically how men think. And he'll lie through his teeth and hold back his tears to keep that possibility alive. I've done it for years at a time. It's brutal to cut him off at the knees now. But you know why it's better for him? Because the sooner he works through the stages of loss - mours you, hates you, comes back and tries again, gets embarassed and just hates you some more, accepts you - the sooner he can move on to somebody who might make him happy.
I am so lonely, i have no friends.?
I met my boyfriend 6 years ago. In that time i have moved away from family %26amp; friends to be and live with him. I have now drifted away from 6 of my or where my closest friends. I only see 1 friend (Helen) who ive known %26amp; grew up with for 25 years. We see each other a few times a month due to work and uni commitments. I have a best friend called Ali at work and also class many of my colleagues as friends but only see my best friend Ali %26amp; some of my colleagues out of work.
I feel alone and gets me depressed at times as i miss the fun, laughter and the good times i use to have. My boyfriend doesnt go out much and i always end up going places alone.
I keep in touch with old college friends through txt and facebook but other than that no one else.
Im 25. Spend weekends in doing nothing (sometimes dont have the money to do things) but its getting me down.
I sometimes want to curl up in bed and sleep to try and make time go faster.
Can anyone help me. :(
I am so lonely, i have no friends.?
Here are some things you could do.
Join:
an evening class
a choir
an amateur dramatic group (don't have to be good at acting, they need all sorts of help)
see if you can help with the local brownies/cub scout groups
offer voluntary help at a hospital
a rambling club.
Your boyfriend could join you at any of these or you could go alone. Either way you won't need much money and you will definitely make friends.
Good luck and hope you cheer up soon.
Reply:=-( I Feel Sorry For You. I Feel Like Crying =-(
Reply:You can start off by getting yourself a Yahoo 360ยบ page and making friends that way. Stop by my page and say hello when ever you want.
Reply:My mum always told me 'never give up your friends for a man, goods friends last a lifetime, boys come and go'.
You either need to make a big effort to rekindle your old friendships or you need to find a way of making new ones, join a gym or some sort of hobby class or something. Otherwise you are going to have a very lonely life.
Reply:GET OUT of the relationship with your boyfriend and go and rekindle the relationships with your family and friends
Reply:try talkin 2 ur bf bout it? if he dusnt understand (i dnt wanna sound harsh) u shud dump him nd liv with ur family or friends
Reply:i agree wiv LD, my mum told me the same never give up your friends for a boyfriend. kick ya bf's boring **** too the kerb n go back too having fun wiv ya family n friends. ur still very young at 25, life's too short as it is don't throw it away.
Reply:its so common for people to give friends up when they get into a relationship. looks like you want to meet up with you friends again or make new Friends. i know its difficult to start again. look in your local paper see whats on you could try bingo or going to pubs i know its no fun on your own. but you can go to selected places for singles or take your boyfriend out more go bowling you relay will find time goes allot quicker doing things together, do not waist you time in bed that will get you down even more.+++++++++++++++++++++++
Reply:We wont be able to help any more then by giving you advise. The only one that can make a difference is you.
You need to just crawl out of bed and face it. Start calling people. Say hi! Tell them how difficult it's been being away and that you miss them so very much. Get their emails and type away. Make it a point to email 2 different people every day or every other day. Schedule them in your agenda if you have to...but don't loose contact. Better yet make new friends where you're at. You don't need money to hang out with friends that live near by or take a walk at the park. Schedule dates with them to hang out on weekends together and watch movies or play Scrabble, charades or what ever you can...lol
no matter where you live now or 10 years from now you have to make that choice to get up and meet people. You'll be surprised how many people will respond to you once you give them a chance to be your friend.
Good Luck!
Reply:how can we help you ?? you must make the changes yourself, go out and find new friends , even move back down to your friends and family again , dont stay in bed you need to enjoy life come on girl snap out of it, you can e mail me too,
Reply:I have friends but I want more, I will be your friend
Reply:I thing you need deep help, so it is better to look some one to share real live with you, instead of boy Freind who some times can be just wasting of time only, and i hope if you at tent that you will get soon, and you will be happy with him. thanks
Reply:loneliness is horrible and effects your emotions to the core, you should maybe think about joining a club or starting a hobby of somesort, think about sometime you enjoy that you do that you know there are clubs for or groups for e.g. reading groups, netball clubs, hockey clubs, darts etc stuff like that. The hobby/sport isn't really important its the social interaction that can be achieved through these activities or try using facebook to see if any of your friends are up for a drink e.g. a reunion type drink and then see what spurs of from that
Reply:Hi You have to ask yourselve? Have you been feeling like this for a long time? Over a week at a time is not good. Do you have a Doctor that you could talk to? What about the friends that you text...Could you talk to them about how you feel...Why don't you go try to spend a week-end away and catch up with your friends. Do you have family you can contact? Try to get all your friends together and have a night out at a show..or other friends house....Ask yourself is your boyfriend trying to keep you away from your friends or is it your choice? You can have brunch where every one brings something and that does not really cost much...cards together skating swimming..even jogging with a friend..may help..this time of year seems to get to many people. Try some of these things..But please if it does not get better you have to speak to a Doctor about it..you can get worse if you don't..Its good that you are reaching out for help..Good Luck Also know that you do not have to stay in this relationship if it is only making you unhappy..It may not be right for you. You may just be used to It. These are only question You yourself can anwer. You may also want to have a Heart to Heart with your boyfriend.
Reply:I know exactly how you feel I always found making friends difficult even as a child. Moving schools didn't help. I have my familly around though and a great hubby but there are times when I wish I had a bunch of girlfiends to chat to and go out with. If you're not happy with this guy they leave now
Reply:you need to help yourself and make a decision
Reply:As you have so much spare time, volunteer at your local Childrens Hospice.
This will help anyone with depression, being fed up cos they have no friends/money/clothes/etc!
Reply:I will be your friend...if you want me
Reply:yeah i know how you feel, i moved to london 400 miles from my home 18 years ago, i have friend here now who is my best friends nephew who moved down here 7 years ago.I have friends at work but come the weekends i get lonely
tooth fairy
I feel alone and gets me depressed at times as i miss the fun, laughter and the good times i use to have. My boyfriend doesnt go out much and i always end up going places alone.
I keep in touch with old college friends through txt and facebook but other than that no one else.
Im 25. Spend weekends in doing nothing (sometimes dont have the money to do things) but its getting me down.
I sometimes want to curl up in bed and sleep to try and make time go faster.
Can anyone help me. :(
I am so lonely, i have no friends.?
Here are some things you could do.
Join:
an evening class
a choir
an amateur dramatic group (don't have to be good at acting, they need all sorts of help)
see if you can help with the local brownies/cub scout groups
offer voluntary help at a hospital
a rambling club.
Your boyfriend could join you at any of these or you could go alone. Either way you won't need much money and you will definitely make friends.
Good luck and hope you cheer up soon.
Reply:=-( I Feel Sorry For You. I Feel Like Crying =-(
Reply:You can start off by getting yourself a Yahoo 360ยบ page and making friends that way. Stop by my page and say hello when ever you want.
Reply:My mum always told me 'never give up your friends for a man, goods friends last a lifetime, boys come and go'.
You either need to make a big effort to rekindle your old friendships or you need to find a way of making new ones, join a gym or some sort of hobby class or something. Otherwise you are going to have a very lonely life.
Reply:GET OUT of the relationship with your boyfriend and go and rekindle the relationships with your family and friends
Reply:try talkin 2 ur bf bout it? if he dusnt understand (i dnt wanna sound harsh) u shud dump him nd liv with ur family or friends
Reply:i agree wiv LD, my mum told me the same never give up your friends for a boyfriend. kick ya bf's boring **** too the kerb n go back too having fun wiv ya family n friends. ur still very young at 25, life's too short as it is don't throw it away.
Reply:its so common for people to give friends up when they get into a relationship. looks like you want to meet up with you friends again or make new Friends. i know its difficult to start again. look in your local paper see whats on you could try bingo or going to pubs i know its no fun on your own. but you can go to selected places for singles or take your boyfriend out more go bowling you relay will find time goes allot quicker doing things together, do not waist you time in bed that will get you down even more.+++++++++++++++++++++++
Reply:We wont be able to help any more then by giving you advise. The only one that can make a difference is you.
You need to just crawl out of bed and face it. Start calling people. Say hi! Tell them how difficult it's been being away and that you miss them so very much. Get their emails and type away. Make it a point to email 2 different people every day or every other day. Schedule them in your agenda if you have to...but don't loose contact. Better yet make new friends where you're at. You don't need money to hang out with friends that live near by or take a walk at the park. Schedule dates with them to hang out on weekends together and watch movies or play Scrabble, charades or what ever you can...lol
no matter where you live now or 10 years from now you have to make that choice to get up and meet people. You'll be surprised how many people will respond to you once you give them a chance to be your friend.
Good Luck!
Reply:how can we help you ?? you must make the changes yourself, go out and find new friends , even move back down to your friends and family again , dont stay in bed you need to enjoy life come on girl snap out of it, you can e mail me too,
Reply:I have friends but I want more, I will be your friend
Reply:I thing you need deep help, so it is better to look some one to share real live with you, instead of boy Freind who some times can be just wasting of time only, and i hope if you at tent that you will get soon, and you will be happy with him. thanks
Reply:loneliness is horrible and effects your emotions to the core, you should maybe think about joining a club or starting a hobby of somesort, think about sometime you enjoy that you do that you know there are clubs for or groups for e.g. reading groups, netball clubs, hockey clubs, darts etc stuff like that. The hobby/sport isn't really important its the social interaction that can be achieved through these activities or try using facebook to see if any of your friends are up for a drink e.g. a reunion type drink and then see what spurs of from that
Reply:Hi You have to ask yourselve? Have you been feeling like this for a long time? Over a week at a time is not good. Do you have a Doctor that you could talk to? What about the friends that you text...Could you talk to them about how you feel...Why don't you go try to spend a week-end away and catch up with your friends. Do you have family you can contact? Try to get all your friends together and have a night out at a show..or other friends house....Ask yourself is your boyfriend trying to keep you away from your friends or is it your choice? You can have brunch where every one brings something and that does not really cost much...cards together skating swimming..even jogging with a friend..may help..this time of year seems to get to many people. Try some of these things..But please if it does not get better you have to speak to a Doctor about it..you can get worse if you don't..Its good that you are reaching out for help..Good Luck Also know that you do not have to stay in this relationship if it is only making you unhappy..It may not be right for you. You may just be used to It. These are only question You yourself can anwer. You may also want to have a Heart to Heart with your boyfriend.
Reply:I know exactly how you feel I always found making friends difficult even as a child. Moving schools didn't help. I have my familly around though and a great hubby but there are times when I wish I had a bunch of girlfiends to chat to and go out with. If you're not happy with this guy they leave now
Reply:you need to help yourself and make a decision
Reply:As you have so much spare time, volunteer at your local Childrens Hospice.
This will help anyone with depression, being fed up cos they have no friends/money/clothes/etc!
Reply:I will be your friend...if you want me
Reply:yeah i know how you feel, i moved to london 400 miles from my home 18 years ago, i have friend here now who is my best friends nephew who moved down here 7 years ago.I have friends at work but come the weekends i get lonely
tooth fairy
Guy friend made me a mix CD, now I'm getting a mixed messaged?
There are some songs that made me think he likes me.
"Trust me it's amazing" -written on CD
_SONG LIST_
asleep on a sunbeam-Belle %26amp;sebastian
tilly and the wall-Bessa
Mr. tambourine man-Bob dylan
Human after all- Daft Punk
I used to dance with my daddy- Datarock
Yoshiimi Battles the Pink Robots-the flaming lips
*Do You realize- the flaming lips
*The luckiest Guy on the lower East Side- the magnetic fields
*Rock with you- Michel Jackson
*I wanna be your Lover- Prince
*Cabron-Red hot chili peppers
I'm shakin' -Rooney
what ever Happened- the strokes
* are ones I might be reading into too much
I used to like him but he did this messed up thing to me before we graduated last year. We didn't talk for awhile but when we both went to college we started talking over facebook again. He explained what he did to me and was really sorry. I am over him and am happy that I got a good guy friend back. He offered to make me this cd and gave it to me before I left a get-together we were at.
Guy friend made me a mix CD, now I'm getting a mixed messaged?
kinda like listening to Irish folk music and rap. sh!t don't mix!!!
Reply:roberzie wins best answer
Reply:He only sees you as an opportunity for sex
Reply:amazing
love u
Reply:dont read into it too much... let tings fall here they may...play it coy and act like you have more stuff to do that to care about the cd..hen he asks you about it..yo can go lke..oh, the cd? yeah had ome time to liste about it the other day..yeah..it's pretty cool..don't contact him about it first..when he sees what an intriguing and fabulous new woman you are..he's going to show his true side and go after you if he's intrested..don't shut him out completely though..when he asks you out you can go like,ill check on it first..then confirm and say yes...like the next day if possible...get a new haircut..go shopping..live your life the way you would..play the field a bit and you'll know when the time is right..but be careful ok? make sure he makes his intentions clear...men,great men, always go for what they want..even wimps get brave when they are into someone..good luck dear! and rob is right..he just might be after sex so don't fall completely..
"Trust me it's amazing" -written on CD
_SONG LIST_
asleep on a sunbeam-Belle %26amp;sebastian
tilly and the wall-Bessa
Mr. tambourine man-Bob dylan
Human after all- Daft Punk
I used to dance with my daddy- Datarock
Yoshiimi Battles the Pink Robots-the flaming lips
*Do You realize- the flaming lips
*The luckiest Guy on the lower East Side- the magnetic fields
*Rock with you- Michel Jackson
*I wanna be your Lover- Prince
*Cabron-Red hot chili peppers
I'm shakin' -Rooney
what ever Happened- the strokes
* are ones I might be reading into too much
I used to like him but he did this messed up thing to me before we graduated last year. We didn't talk for awhile but when we both went to college we started talking over facebook again. He explained what he did to me and was really sorry. I am over him and am happy that I got a good guy friend back. He offered to make me this cd and gave it to me before I left a get-together we were at.
Guy friend made me a mix CD, now I'm getting a mixed messaged?
kinda like listening to Irish folk music and rap. sh!t don't mix!!!
Reply:roberzie wins best answer
Reply:He only sees you as an opportunity for sex
Reply:amazing
love u
Reply:dont read into it too much... let tings fall here they may...play it coy and act like you have more stuff to do that to care about the cd..hen he asks you about it..yo can go lke..oh, the cd? yeah had ome time to liste about it the other day..yeah..it's pretty cool..don't contact him about it first..when he sees what an intriguing and fabulous new woman you are..he's going to show his true side and go after you if he's intrested..don't shut him out completely though..when he asks you out you can go like,ill check on it first..then confirm and say yes...like the next day if possible...get a new haircut..go shopping..live your life the way you would..play the field a bit and you'll know when the time is right..but be careful ok? make sure he makes his intentions clear...men,great men, always go for what they want..even wimps get brave when they are into someone..good luck dear! and rob is right..he just might be after sex so don't fall completely..
I'm not sure how to act from a mix cd my friend made, does he like me?
There are some songs that made me think he likes me.
"Trust me it's amazing" -written on CD
_SONG LIST_
asleep on a sunbeam-Belle %26amp;sebastian
tilly and the wall-Bessa
Mr. tambourine man-Bob dylan
Human after all- Daft Punk
I used to dance with my daddy- Datarock
Yoshiimi Battles the Pink Robots-the flaming lips
*Do You realize- the flaming lips
*The luckiest Guy on the lower East Side- the magnetic fields
*Rock with you- Michel Jackson
*I wanna be your Lover- Prince
*Cabron-Red hot chili peppers
I'm shakin' -Rooney
what ever Happened- the strokes
* are ones I might be reading into too much
I used to like him but he did this messed up thing to me before we graduated last year. We didn't talk for awhile but when we both went to college we started talking over facebook again. He explained what he did to me and was really sorry. I am over him and am happy that I got a good guy friend back. He offered to make me this cd and gave it to me before I left a get-together we were at.
I'm not sure how to act from a mix cd my friend made, does he like me?
Oh wow, he definitley is into you!
No man would do this otherwise!
What did he do to you?
Follow your heart, if it wasent anything too serious, you might want to let him show you he's trying, and changing.
But be careful...
xoxox
Reply:I would a thought a friend I knew for three years would at least have been kind to me. Report It
Reply:*I wanna be your Lover- Prince
Yes he does
Reply:I only make mix cds for girls I like. Easiest thing to do would be to ask him how he chose the songs and why? Do this in person or on the phone if that isn't possible. Avoid email or facebook, etc as it's way too easy to read into things.
I'm a bit alarmed that he put Magnetic Fields on there. That song is kind of whiny and sort of "low self-esteemy."
"Trust me it's amazing" -written on CD
_SONG LIST_
asleep on a sunbeam-Belle %26amp;sebastian
tilly and the wall-Bessa
Mr. tambourine man-Bob dylan
Human after all- Daft Punk
I used to dance with my daddy- Datarock
Yoshiimi Battles the Pink Robots-the flaming lips
*Do You realize- the flaming lips
*The luckiest Guy on the lower East Side- the magnetic fields
*Rock with you- Michel Jackson
*I wanna be your Lover- Prince
*Cabron-Red hot chili peppers
I'm shakin' -Rooney
what ever Happened- the strokes
* are ones I might be reading into too much
I used to like him but he did this messed up thing to me before we graduated last year. We didn't talk for awhile but when we both went to college we started talking over facebook again. He explained what he did to me and was really sorry. I am over him and am happy that I got a good guy friend back. He offered to make me this cd and gave it to me before I left a get-together we were at.
I'm not sure how to act from a mix cd my friend made, does he like me?
Oh wow, he definitley is into you!
No man would do this otherwise!
What did he do to you?
Follow your heart, if it wasent anything too serious, you might want to let him show you he's trying, and changing.
But be careful...
xoxox
Reply:I would a thought a friend I knew for three years would at least have been kind to me. Report It
Reply:*I wanna be your Lover- Prince
Yes he does
Reply:I only make mix cds for girls I like. Easiest thing to do would be to ask him how he chose the songs and why? Do this in person or on the phone if that isn't possible. Avoid email or facebook, etc as it's way too easy to read into things.
I'm a bit alarmed that he put Magnetic Fields on there. That song is kind of whiny and sort of "low self-esteemy."
How do I get to know this girl? This girl is cute and we seem to be compatable in many important areas.?
The problem is not only does she not know me, she's at another college. I can view her Facebook profile, because I used to go to that college. She lives in my town, I don't know where though. One of my other friends said that I should meet her. Is this impossible or is there a way for me to work this situation out? She may even go to my church as well. Should I send her a message online telling her we seem to have the same interests or what? I want to get to know her and progress from there. By the way, if this is impossible, I would then like to know where I can meet some sweet, Christian girls to get to know better (singles clubs?). I live in Arlington Heights, IL (near AHEFC Church) and I hope that someone out there can help me.
How do I get to know this girl? This girl is cute and we seem to be compatable in many important areas.?
God's beautiful creation has got you lovestoned and I think that she knows. Now the question is: Is it a sin that she stole your heart? Let’s just say as long as you’re slick with words, you can have any woman that you lust for. Look, it’s all about the confidence. Life is a game. It’s called a confidence game. But what you have with you everytime you glance at her is fear. Now the question is: how do you nail the girl you desire? By installing the fear within her. With all the vital signs you have given me, it is clear to say that this girl is playing hard to get. And this is actually a good thing, because no matter what, girls like the attention even though you may think she is not interested in you. The best thing to do is always be yourself. Ask to see if she wants to go out to lunch or grab a quick bite to eat. Take her out to a movie or help her out with whatever she is currently doing (schooling, work, etc). Give her advice and make her feel special by being there by her side no matter what. For starters, if you wish to be sweet and calm as possible, tell her there is something on her cheek and that you want to get rid of it. She will obviously would like to know what it is, and you pretend to get the imagined dust particle off her face. Her question would be "What is it?" Your reply is: "Beauty" Works like a charm. Also, imagine that you are in need of the time; you approach her and ask for the time. She gives it to you and you say: "Wow, really? That late? Well, one thing's for sure, if beauty were time you'd be eternity." Well, if you wish to be more comfortable with this person that you yearn for, I would suggest for you to perhaps obtain her MSN address at best. The Art of Seduction is a difficult practise to master, but I shall give you a few pointers. Alright, so as you mention you don't know this person oh so well, hence her first reaction when you try to add you to her MSN list, would be "Who is this?" This is where you would have to play hard to get and say as followed: It's never easy meeting a complete stranger, especially one as beautiful as you, without being properly introduced. But shall we try anyway? This is (your name). You have probably seen me ....." Following so far? Then, depending on her reaction, you would need to say: "You have probably heard of (name insert or fellow colleague or anyone of that matter). He bet that I wouldn't be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl on MSN. How I am doing so far?" If you do manage to go on a first date with her, I suggest you get her flowers and pull this one on her enclosed as a message within an envelope signed by you: “You should go and stand in front of a mirror and hold up 11 roses, so you would see 12 of the most beautiful things in the world.” It will make her go awwwww. Also, if you wish to show how much you care about her, I suggest you use the following tagline: “If I had a rose for every time I thought of you I'd be walking in a garden forever.” Also, try getting her lingerie as a gift. If you are not ready for that quite yet, just tell her that you simply like her. Believe me; girls go like “Awww, how cute,” when they receive lingerie as a gift. These of course should be used when you get to know her better. Writing a poem however is definitely a good way to kick it off, believe me. If you get all Shakespearean on her, the better. If you need more advice, feel free to contact me.
Reply:Well you seem like a nice enough guy so I would tell you to just go for it and email her or whatever you have to do. If she shoots you down it's her loss, you win some you lose some.
Reply:Ask her out for a cup of coffee in a very public place..tell her you can meet her there...that way she will still feel safe.
Reply:Just make conversation with her. Send her a message on facebook. Tell her you two went to the same college and ask her what she is studying. That should break the ice.
How do I get to know this girl? This girl is cute and we seem to be compatable in many important areas.?
God's beautiful creation has got you lovestoned and I think that she knows. Now the question is: Is it a sin that she stole your heart? Let’s just say as long as you’re slick with words, you can have any woman that you lust for. Look, it’s all about the confidence. Life is a game. It’s called a confidence game. But what you have with you everytime you glance at her is fear. Now the question is: how do you nail the girl you desire? By installing the fear within her. With all the vital signs you have given me, it is clear to say that this girl is playing hard to get. And this is actually a good thing, because no matter what, girls like the attention even though you may think she is not interested in you. The best thing to do is always be yourself. Ask to see if she wants to go out to lunch or grab a quick bite to eat. Take her out to a movie or help her out with whatever she is currently doing (schooling, work, etc). Give her advice and make her feel special by being there by her side no matter what. For starters, if you wish to be sweet and calm as possible, tell her there is something on her cheek and that you want to get rid of it. She will obviously would like to know what it is, and you pretend to get the imagined dust particle off her face. Her question would be "What is it?" Your reply is: "Beauty" Works like a charm. Also, imagine that you are in need of the time; you approach her and ask for the time. She gives it to you and you say: "Wow, really? That late? Well, one thing's for sure, if beauty were time you'd be eternity." Well, if you wish to be more comfortable with this person that you yearn for, I would suggest for you to perhaps obtain her MSN address at best. The Art of Seduction is a difficult practise to master, but I shall give you a few pointers. Alright, so as you mention you don't know this person oh so well, hence her first reaction when you try to add you to her MSN list, would be "Who is this?" This is where you would have to play hard to get and say as followed: It's never easy meeting a complete stranger, especially one as beautiful as you, without being properly introduced. But shall we try anyway? This is (your name). You have probably seen me ....." Following so far? Then, depending on her reaction, you would need to say: "You have probably heard of (name insert or fellow colleague or anyone of that matter). He bet that I wouldn't be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl on MSN. How I am doing so far?" If you do manage to go on a first date with her, I suggest you get her flowers and pull this one on her enclosed as a message within an envelope signed by you: “You should go and stand in front of a mirror and hold up 11 roses, so you would see 12 of the most beautiful things in the world.” It will make her go awwwww. Also, if you wish to show how much you care about her, I suggest you use the following tagline: “If I had a rose for every time I thought of you I'd be walking in a garden forever.” Also, try getting her lingerie as a gift. If you are not ready for that quite yet, just tell her that you simply like her. Believe me; girls go like “Awww, how cute,” when they receive lingerie as a gift. These of course should be used when you get to know her better. Writing a poem however is definitely a good way to kick it off, believe me. If you get all Shakespearean on her, the better. If you need more advice, feel free to contact me.
Reply:Well you seem like a nice enough guy so I would tell you to just go for it and email her or whatever you have to do. If she shoots you down it's her loss, you win some you lose some.
Reply:Ask her out for a cup of coffee in a very public place..tell her you can meet her there...that way she will still feel safe.
Reply:Just make conversation with her. Send her a message on facebook. Tell her you two went to the same college and ask her what she is studying. That should break the ice.
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