How to let down someone who is waaay to attatched?

I met a guy through a friend in may (end of the semester) and he seemed cool. we hung out one other time adn talk online. since it is summertime, i went back home and he went back to korea. he messages me everyday and texts me almost everyday. he also stalks me on facebook (like myspace but for college) and my friends and asks sooo many questions about me and other guys who write on my wall and who i have pictures with. he is getting way too atatched and remember, we have only met in person twice! i dont know how to let him down easily becasue when school does start up again, i dont want him to think that we're in a relationship or anything. i want to be free in college. help!!!!!!!!

How to let down someone who is waaay to attatched?
Just tell him that he's making you uncomfortable with the stuff he does, and that you want him to back off and stop asking prying questions about your personal life. If he still stalks you after you've told him then I would just flat out avoid him and not talk to him because that's just creepy.
Reply:You probably just need to be honest with him. Honesty works best at all times. Which is better? For him to think that you are together and maybe dating and then eventually be hurt by the fact that you aren't, or that you will tell him now how you feel (write an email to him) and he will probably ending up being hurt no matter what, but by being honest you have done the right thing. Nothing good will come out of the fact that you will wait. He also has the right to find someone who likes him and wants to be with him. Instead of just thinking that he is with someone and who doesn't like him the same way as he likes you.





Sometimes life isn't easy but one thing we need to learn is to never hurt someone intentionally, especially when emotions are involved. That is how we get less trustful when people are not honest with their true feelings and we believe things that aren't true.





Do the right thing and just tell him how you feel. Honesty is never wrong.
Reply:First calm down. You need to understand that this guys feelings can be hurt. Let him down gently and be cool. Be honest and be straight tell him the truth. Tell him that you just want to be friends.
Reply:He's not asking to be let down easy. In fact, he's begging for someone to be cruel. Nip it, because with this guy it's hard to read between the "text" lines. Tell him he is driving you crazy with all the personal questions which I would make sure he knew was none of his business. Just tell him to stop. Can you get a new number?