How would YOU handle this situation?

My ex GF and I broke up about a month ago. she broke it off and things have sorta been awkward between us since and we have barely talked. we all are part of a bigger group of friends that got pretty close during our freshman year of college. Three of my good male friends and I are living in an apartment together next year. anyways, ( i wasnt supposed to find out yet) my ex GF and one of my good friends that ill be living with next year have become really close and are probably close to dating. They recently went on a road trip together all over the east coast. she posted pictures of them together holding eachother and such on facebook (myspace for college kids). when i found out initially i was a bit ticked. im over her now but im gonna have trouble being good friends w/ her which is what she wants. she hasnt contacted me herself since a few days after the breakup. i want to say screw it but im going to have to be around all of these ppl next year. what would u do?

How would YOU handle this situation?
tough.. i would just request that they do their thing like hanging out or kissing or whatever away from you... you still need time to heal as in you dont want to have to see her and old memories.. not yet...





saying hes just got out of a long relationship.. hes prob bit on the rebound and her the same.. so might not last long anyway.. but just try to move on the best you can.. and keep them away for awhile.. if they REALLY fall for each other.. once you see them together it should slowly not become as bad for you.. just give it time mate:)
Reply:If you were ticked off as you say just about seeing photos then you are obviously not over it. I personally would either take myself out of that circle of friends or explain to them how you feel about the situation and that you can not be within the same circle if those 2 are amongst them. If there are truly you're "close" friends then they will completely understand. Time for you to get over it though and fast if you think you can live with them. I would also find different roommates. It is going to be like pouring salt on an open wound to see those 2 together.
Reply:You know, give it time. See how you feel about it. It might be weird as hell for a while but don't condemn the idea or them. See how it goes.
Reply:She is your ex for a reason. Let her be who she wants to be with. Go out and just have fun with your life.. Let it go and enjoy being young and in college.
Reply:I think you hurting b/c you still have some feelings for her... Its normal b/c the breakup is recent....Live your life and enjoy yourself dont stress it things happen for a reason.... Hope everything works out
Reply:I had the same exact thing happen to me, I say find someone new, have fun. That's what worked for me. 20 years later, they are married and miserable and I'm still a much happier camper losing the grudge.
Reply:dude I think you should talk to your friend and asked him about what's the real score to him and your exgf and if there really in love with each other I think that you should take it happly for them if anything happens just message me ok?
Reply:i think ur roommate to be is in the wrong for doing this.as a friend,he should have come to u and talk to u about it and see how u feel about it since ya'll be living together soon.any good friend would do that.





what would i do?i will for sure tell my friend that he should have come to me and ask me how i feel about it.and since this is my friend as well,i will accept the fact that they gonna be together and move on with my own life and still remain friends.





i know this is gonna be hard for u but life goes on.put urself out there and start dating,u don't have to get serious or anything,just dates(movies,eating out,even clubbing).one day,that special girl will walk into ur life...