Sunday, August 22, 2010

How do I get to know this girl? This girl is cute and we seem to be compatable in many important areas.?

The problem is not only does she not know me, she's at another college. I can view her Facebook profile, because I used to go to that college. She lives in my town, I don't know where though. One of my other friends said that I should meet her. Is this impossible or is there a way for me to work this situation out? She may even go to my church as well. Should I send her a message online telling her we seem to have the same interests or what? I want to get to know her and progress from there. By the way, if this is impossible, I would then like to know where I can meet some sweet, Christian girls to get to know better (singles clubs?). I live in Arlington Heights, IL (near AHEFC Church) and I hope that someone out there can help me.

How do I get to know this girl? This girl is cute and we seem to be compatable in many important areas.?
God's beautiful creation has got you lovestoned and I think that she knows. Now the question is: Is it a sin that she stole your heart? Let’s just say as long as you’re slick with words, you can have any woman that you lust for. Look, it’s all about the confidence. Life is a game. It’s called a confidence game. But what you have with you everytime you glance at her is fear. Now the question is: how do you nail the girl you desire? By installing the fear within her. With all the vital signs you have given me, it is clear to say that this girl is playing hard to get. And this is actually a good thing, because no matter what, girls like the attention even though you may think she is not interested in you. The best thing to do is always be yourself. Ask to see if she wants to go out to lunch or grab a quick bite to eat. Take her out to a movie or help her out with whatever she is currently doing (schooling, work, etc). Give her advice and make her feel special by being there by her side no matter what. For starters, if you wish to be sweet and calm as possible, tell her there is something on her cheek and that you want to get rid of it. She will obviously would like to know what it is, and you pretend to get the imagined dust particle off her face. Her question would be "What is it?" Your reply is: "Beauty" Works like a charm. Also, imagine that you are in need of the time; you approach her and ask for the time. She gives it to you and you say: "Wow, really? That late? Well, one thing's for sure, if beauty were time you'd be eternity." Well, if you wish to be more comfortable with this person that you yearn for, I would suggest for you to perhaps obtain her MSN address at best. The Art of Seduction is a difficult practise to master, but I shall give you a few pointers. Alright, so as you mention you don't know this person oh so well, hence her first reaction when you try to add you to her MSN list, would be "Who is this?" This is where you would have to play hard to get and say as followed: It's never easy meeting a complete stranger, especially one as beautiful as you, without being properly introduced. But shall we try anyway? This is (your name). You have probably seen me ....." Following so far? Then, depending on her reaction, you would need to say: "You have probably heard of (name insert or fellow colleague or anyone of that matter). He bet that I wouldn't be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl on MSN. How I am doing so far?" If you do manage to go on a first date with her, I suggest you get her flowers and pull this one on her enclosed as a message within an envelope signed by you: “You should go and stand in front of a mirror and hold up 11 roses, so you would see 12 of the most beautiful things in the world.” It will make her go awwwww. Also, if you wish to show how much you care about her, I suggest you use the following tagline: “If I had a rose for every time I thought of you I'd be walking in a garden forever.” Also, try getting her lingerie as a gift. If you are not ready for that quite yet, just tell her that you simply like her. Believe me; girls go like “Awww, how cute,” when they receive lingerie as a gift. These of course should be used when you get to know her better. Writing a poem however is definitely a good way to kick it off, believe me. If you get all Shakespearean on her, the better. If you need more advice, feel free to contact me.
Reply:Well you seem like a nice enough guy so I would tell you to just go for it and email her or whatever you have to do. If she shoots you down it's her loss, you win some you lose some.
Reply:Ask her out for a cup of coffee in a very public place..tell her you can meet her there...that way she will still feel safe.
Reply:Just make conversation with her. Send her a message on facebook. Tell her you two went to the same college and ask her what she is studying. That should break the ice.


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