Sunday, August 22, 2010

Is she interested in friendship or more??

An old friend from college kept messaging me on facebook. I had asked her out, and she stood me up. After four messages, I told her the whole truth about how I liked her and felt rejected but enjoyed our friendship, and she replied that she felt bad about what she did. Anyway, she said she enjoyed the friendship and admired me but did not know how she felt about me and pushed me away because she naturally does that to anyone who gets close. She has been hurt a lot in the past, but she said she is healing from those hurts! She also appreciates an open and honest friendship. Might she be hoping for more than friendship over time?

Is she interested in friendship or more??
Too much baggage. Run. There are a zillion fish in the sea. Get over the one-itus and move on. It sounds like I am being harsh but trust me - we have all been there....the what could be...or what could have been....path. Go out there and get yourself a baker's dozen and let me know what you think of her then...peace!
Reply:There are many situation in life, from which it is not possible to come up early. It takes some time to come up, but to be frank she is interested in your friendship and expects more in part of the life. Dont leave her in the part of life, as she is already hurt by many past experiences.
Reply:The answer to your question would have to be-No- If she was interested in something more than just friendship why would she want to waste any more time not being with you in a loving couple way.
Reply:it would be better for her to come to u instead of u because u might freak her out and u dont want that. be aloof with her and maybe she might come around but just let her come to u. when she is ready she will let u know
Reply:Over time it can develope into more, sounds like shes trying to work thru her problems. Try starting slow and maybe go for coffee or drinks as friends (let her know as friends) and just talk get to know each other.


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