Thursday, August 19, 2010

How would u handle the situation?

My ex GF and I broke up about a month ago. she broke it off and things have sorta been awkward between us since and we have barely talked. we all are part of a bigger group of friends that got pretty close during our freshman year of college. Three of my good male friends and I are living in an apartment together next year. anyways, ( i wasnt supposed to find out yet) my ex GF and one of my good friends that ill be living with next year have become really close and are probably close to dating. They recently went on a road trip together all over the east coast. she posted pictures of them together holding eachother and such on facebook (myspace for college kids). when i found out initially i was a bit ticked. im over her now but im gonna have trouble being good friends w/ her which is what she wants. she hasnt contacted me herself since a few days after the breakup. i want to say screw it but im going to have to be around all of these ppl next year. what would u do?

How would u handle the situation?
If at all possible and if it is not too late, you might wish to make other living arrangements in advance of the school year.. You are in college to further your education and socializing is a secondary asset to your college life. You do not need a social situation to interfere with your ability to function effectively during your sophomore year at school. Do not let this female cause you any grief by using roommates to get to you. If you were ticked after seeing the upcoming roommates pictures with your ex girlfriend, I would say you do not need to be living in the same apartment with her new boyfriend. Make other living arrangements now.
Reply:Well i do know my friends allwasy said we cant date the same people... bottom line to help avoid the problem. However to late for that now.





So here is what i would do. Just be her friend along with your buddy too. You never know soem day your buddy may need a man to talk to... you've been there. Sorry it didnt work out for you two.. but there is still happyness out there for you too... she is looking and seraching for it.. so shoudl you.. and you never know she may see you with someone else... and not like it... called in eye for an eye. But if you are close freinds just roll with it.. and it will all be fine.. dotn hold it aginst eitehr one...


good luck
Reply:just let it roll and move on with life. the right things will work themselves out :)
Reply:There's nothing you can do..you can either stop talking to both of them...or deal with their relationship.


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