On the first weekend, I met this girl who heard about people snowboarding. It was her first time and I pretty much stayed with her the entire time to teach her. During the next week, I saw her around my dorm because she has other friends here and she started hanging out with me more.
On the second weekend we partied and she slept in my room but on my couch. A little talk through text/facebook.
One weekend ago, we went out to go eat and had a good time. That same weekend she also pretty much lived in my room and slept on the couch. During the next week we talked moderatley through text/facebook/the phone.
For the last few days we've been talking quite a bit. Text/call almost everyday. We hung out about the entire weekend. We went out to study and ended up talking for over an hour. She just kinda ended things w/someone I know in the dorm. (1 mo. ago) She asked one of my friends out to a formal, but strictly as friends (he has a g/f).
Am I just a friend? What should I do?
I'm starting to like this girl, Am I in the friend zone? College. Please Help!!?
If you don't tell this chick you like her you will be in the friend zone.
What's the worst that could happen. She tells you she's not interested or says in in a i'm sorry i don't want to screw up our friendship kind of way.
Well if that happens you can be proud of yourself for facing your fear of rejection and use that to give yourself confidence to be able to meet a girl and say right away that your attracted to her and would like to get to know her.
Reply:hmm I think you are a possibility to be more then just friends. She did recently break up with someone, but it is college and she seems interested in getting to know you more with all the time you two have been spending together. Just causally ask her how she would feel if you went on a date or something. Just be relaxed and confident. Good luck dude!
Reply:You should make your move if you like her. Just see where it goes. If she says you're just friends, then just move on. There's plenty of girls out there, especially in college.
Reply:I'd have to say there could be something there, could be a little to early to tell as she's just getting over someone else. It sounds as though you're traveling into the "friend zone," but then a lot of relationships start of as just being friends. Don't get fooled into thinking that she does like you in that way, if something were to happen, I'd say to be careful as she could just be trying to fill that emptiness that use to be her boyfriend, that's not what you want. Or is it? If its a relationship you want, take it slow, give her time. I know it may be hard to explain if she tried to kiss you or something, but its out of respect that you'd wait to know that she's really ready to move on, rather then just a one night thing. The only thing you can really do is just be there for her as a friend, listen to her, don't pass judgment or offer any advice other then to just listen, unless she ask. Most women just want to be listened to rather then us men telling them what to do. Eventually she'll get over the other dude, she may start to realize what a wonderful man you are, take notice of that, possibly liking you as more then just a friend.
Reply:youre approaching the friend zone.. but with the texting and calling everyday what are those usual conversations?
does she talk to you about guy problems cuz then its an obvious youre headed for the friend zone.
idk for the most part it seems like you guys are still building a relationship, so make your move ask her out again, just the two of you
Reply:it sounds like she has some sort of attraction towards you, but it seems like you're not taking it anywhere.
she spends time with you, talks to you, sleeps in your dorm!, but you never attempted at anything.
you should make a move really soon because if you don't she could get tired of waiting and you could hit the friends' zone very soon.
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