Sunday, August 22, 2010

This guy who used to have a crush on me?

left for college but now im reeeally interested in him %26amp; i think he knows....were friends on facebook %26amp; i asked him how college is goin %26amp; he told me its amazing %26amp; doesnt know if he'll ever make it home....what can i say in response thats kinda flirty but not too desperate....or should i jus not say anything?

This guy who used to have a crush on me?
Ask him to come back one weekend so you two can hang out. If he shows up, then that would be a good moment to let him know how you feel. If he doesn't come, then he is no longer "crushing" on you and you shouldn't push the subject anymore. Just stay friends. If this is his first year in college, I hate to tell you most guys don't want to jump into anything serious once they get to college because he's going to be meeting sooo many girls. A lot of guys like to stay single, particularly first year freshman because they know there are going to be "opportunities" that they won't want to pass up that they would have to if they were in a relationship. Although many guys in college can be good partners, many tend to really take in campus life.. if you know what I mean. But if he shows up let him know whats on your heart and take it from there.
Reply:I'm afraid to say that it sounds like this guy has moved on from the days of crushing over you. He has made a new life for himself which is obviously just the beginning for him, and much as he probably enjoys having your attention, it doesn't sound like he has any plans to pick up with you in the future. I think he is telling you plainly that you had your chance, but you blew it.
Reply:You don't you invite yourself up for a visit and see what he says, maybe something like I was thinking about going back to school and I would like to see the campus. If he still likes you he will be all over that.
Reply:He probably will never make it home is a hint that he may have found someone and fallen in love. He may no longer be interested. Why else would he find it amazing? Good yes....but amazing??
Reply:If u wanna be flirty say something like..... "Well if u come back don't forget to visit me' =)
Reply:hm... just wait for a bit.. then make a first step!! But dont make anything 2 obvios.. lol Just make it more in the friends way.... Good luck :)
Reply:this may be a case of you snooze you lose.
Reply:just talk to him and be friends.if he likes you then you should just ask him out..start making some plans we your not busy.just go for it.just flirt and see what happens.just dont be nervous...hes probably nervous just as much as you.but just stay calm and dont lose connection with each other.try getting each others phone numbers.but dont be afraid to say something flirty.get to know each other more if you have to,but stick with the flow.or you never know maybe he might still like you a little bit and we will ask you out for a date,or you can try to ask him.





hope everything goes well!:)
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