I am so lonely, i have no friends.?

I met my boyfriend 6 years ago. In that time i have moved away from family %26amp; friends to be and live with him. I have now drifted away from 6 of my or where my closest friends. I only see 1 friend (Helen) who ive known %26amp; grew up with for 25 years. We see each other a few times a month due to work and uni commitments. I have a best friend called Ali at work and also class many of my colleagues as friends but only see my best friend Ali %26amp; some of my colleagues out of work.


I feel alone and gets me depressed at times as i miss the fun, laughter and the good times i use to have. My boyfriend doesnt go out much and i always end up going places alone.


I keep in touch with old college friends through txt and facebook but other than that no one else.


Im 25. Spend weekends in doing nothing (sometimes dont have the money to do things) but its getting me down.


I sometimes want to curl up in bed and sleep to try and make time go faster.


Can anyone help me. :(

I am so lonely, i have no friends.?
Here are some things you could do.





Join:


an evening class


a choir


an amateur dramatic group (don't have to be good at acting, they need all sorts of help)


see if you can help with the local brownies/cub scout groups


offer voluntary help at a hospital


a rambling club.





Your boyfriend could join you at any of these or you could go alone. Either way you won't need much money and you will definitely make friends.





Good luck and hope you cheer up soon.
Reply:=-( I Feel Sorry For You. I Feel Like Crying =-(
Reply:You can start off by getting yourself a Yahoo 360º page and making friends that way. Stop by my page and say hello when ever you want.
Reply:My mum always told me 'never give up your friends for a man, goods friends last a lifetime, boys come and go'.





You either need to make a big effort to rekindle your old friendships or you need to find a way of making new ones, join a gym or some sort of hobby class or something. Otherwise you are going to have a very lonely life.
Reply:GET OUT of the relationship with your boyfriend and go and rekindle the relationships with your family and friends
Reply:try talkin 2 ur bf bout it? if he dusnt understand (i dnt wanna sound harsh) u shud dump him nd liv with ur family or friends
Reply:i agree wiv LD, my mum told me the same never give up your friends for a boyfriend. kick ya bf's boring **** too the kerb n go back too having fun wiv ya family n friends. ur still very young at 25, life's too short as it is don't throw it away.
Reply:its so common for people to give friends up when they get into a relationship. looks like you want to meet up with you friends again or make new Friends. i know its difficult to start again. look in your local paper see whats on you could try bingo or going to pubs i know its no fun on your own. but you can go to selected places for singles or take your boyfriend out more go bowling you relay will find time goes allot quicker doing things together, do not waist you time in bed that will get you down even more.+++++++++++++++++++++++
Reply:We wont be able to help any more then by giving you advise. The only one that can make a difference is you.


You need to just crawl out of bed and face it. Start calling people. Say hi! Tell them how difficult it's been being away and that you miss them so very much. Get their emails and type away. Make it a point to email 2 different people every day or every other day. Schedule them in your agenda if you have to...but don't loose contact. Better yet make new friends where you're at. You don't need money to hang out with friends that live near by or take a walk at the park. Schedule dates with them to hang out on weekends together and watch movies or play Scrabble, charades or what ever you can...lol


no matter where you live now or 10 years from now you have to make that choice to get up and meet people. You'll be surprised how many people will respond to you once you give them a chance to be your friend.





Good Luck!
Reply:how can we help you ?? you must make the changes yourself, go out and find new friends , even move back down to your friends and family again , dont stay in bed you need to enjoy life come on girl snap out of it, you can e mail me too,
Reply:I have friends but I want more, I will be your friend
Reply:I thing you need deep help, so it is better to look some one to share real live with you, instead of boy Freind who some times can be just wasting of time only, and i hope if you at tent that you will get soon, and you will be happy with him. thanks
Reply:loneliness is horrible and effects your emotions to the core, you should maybe think about joining a club or starting a hobby of somesort, think about sometime you enjoy that you do that you know there are clubs for or groups for e.g. reading groups, netball clubs, hockey clubs, darts etc stuff like that. The hobby/sport isn't really important its the social interaction that can be achieved through these activities or try using facebook to see if any of your friends are up for a drink e.g. a reunion type drink and then see what spurs of from that
Reply:Hi You have to ask yourselve? Have you been feeling like this for a long time? Over a week at a time is not good. Do you have a Doctor that you could talk to? What about the friends that you text...Could you talk to them about how you feel...Why don't you go try to spend a week-end away and catch up with your friends. Do you have family you can contact? Try to get all your friends together and have a night out at a show..or other friends house....Ask yourself is your boyfriend trying to keep you away from your friends or is it your choice? You can have brunch where every one brings something and that does not really cost much...cards together skating swimming..even jogging with a friend..may help..this time of year seems to get to many people. Try some of these things..But please if it does not get better you have to speak to a Doctor about it..you can get worse if you don't..Its good that you are reaching out for help..Good Luck Also know that you do not have to stay in this relationship if it is only making you unhappy..It may not be right for you. You may just be used to It. These are only question You yourself can anwer. You may also want to have a Heart to Heart with your boyfriend.
Reply:I know exactly how you feel I always found making friends difficult even as a child. Moving schools didn't help. I have my familly around though and a great hubby but there are times when I wish I had a bunch of girlfiends to chat to and go out with. If you're not happy with this guy they leave now
Reply:you need to help yourself and make a decision
Reply:As you have so much spare time, volunteer at your local Childrens Hospice.





This will help anyone with depression, being fed up cos they have no friends/money/clothes/etc!
Reply:I will be your friend...if you want me
Reply:yeah i know how you feel, i moved to london 400 miles from my home 18 years ago, i have friend here now who is my best friends nephew who moved down here 7 years ago.I have friends at work but come the weekends i get lonely

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