Why don't we have sex like we used to?

I'm 27 years old. My fiance is 24. Before she "got me" we used to have sex everywhere, in the restroom of stores, on the car, anywhere and anytime. She used to dress sexy for me, do just about anything I wanted. Now we've had our first child, and all she ever says is "I'm tired".





I won't lie she busts her ***. She goes to work much earlier than I, and I even get off work before her. We're both Engineers but she's in management.





My thing is, regardless of how much you do, if you have time to run your mouth on the phone or get online to facebook with your old college friends, then you have time to be a women and take care of your man sexually. I know that sounds "harsh". But I like to be real.





I'm a strong believer in listenening to what your significant other wants because if you don't provide it someone else will.





Now it's becoming very hard for me to resist women that used to be easy to resist when I was getting it regularly.

Why don't we have sex like we used to?
How old is your child?





Things won't always be this way and your cheating would only make it worse. I can almost guarantee your cheating would not make HER happy.





Try helping more around the house. Help with the cleaning, childcare. Make it easier for her to have that extra time at home.
Reply:I am in the same position. She probably feels swamped with the new addition to the family. Sometimes, do what she would normally do to give her some time to herself. She'll be herself soon. Report It

Reply:talk to her about it...tell her how u feel...she'll understand if she really loves u !
Reply:no it wouldnt be ok to get it somewhere else given that you could!if you love her you wouldnt even think about it have you tried talking to her about it?
Reply:Did you just fall off the turnip truck? Everybody knows that having a kid kills sex. For a while.





You could help. You're both Engineers, you must make good dough. Why don't you get a housekeeper. And stop acting like a huge baby yourself.





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I'm married with 2 kids.
Reply:ouch. this is a hard one but you should not cheat. especially when you have a child. the thing you should do is talk to her and set up a couple of dates in advance. tell her shes been working too hard and tell her that you are really in need for her and seduce her because if i were in your position id go crazy. ahhhh you live with a person and u cant have her. nooooo.
Reply:I think its part of life,i however don't believe things will always go this way.Explain how u feel but don't cheat cause you will cause bigger problems.