He lives in another country, 12 hours away from where I live, but he keeps saying he want to come over in the summer Holidays (I'm in college, he's still in high school, but he's one year younger than me!)
I'd just like to have an analysis of what this means and what he is trying to say. Could it be he's still interested? Or is he just joking around and reminding me of "the good old days"?
After about 9 years, we meet up on facebook again and he admits he had a crush on me...?
What's wrong just asking him what his ideas really are? Or what does he, at this pint in time, expect from this visit. There seems to be time enough to chat and 'talk' about things. Though, I think digital 'talking' has one disadvantage: answers are not always spontanious. People can think about what the best suitable answer would be. You don't hear them thinking, or the tone in which something would be said. So it can still be a lie. Then again, as soon as you have it all in writing, there's a way to strike back when things turn out different when he's over your side of the border. Question to put him, where does he think of staying, how long's he gonna stay, do you have to be with him all the time? Does he have anybody else he want to visit, or any place he also wants to go. He can't expect you to entertain him for a week. Unless you like him so much already, which I can sense is not the case at this time..
Straight foreward questions always get you where you wnat to be. It's hard on yourself to try and figure it all out on your own. You've got the questions, he might give you the answers that you can, in turn, ask other questions on. Make it easy on yourself, good luck! Frankie
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