I took a break with my bf at college, now were back together and i'm insecure about the other girls he had?

i look at like facebook and everything and he had so many hookups and stuff. and i know we were on a break and thats ok. but how do i deal with the insecurity?

I took a break with my bf at college, now were back together and i'm insecure about the other girls he had?
your concerned about him hooking up with other chics while you were on a break from oneanother????dont you think he also thinks about the other guys that you had been with as well, thats


why they call it a break, so give him one and yourself a break at the same time,,,,,no reason 4 you to be insecure about your self hon, your still the same young woman now as you were before the break and i would say that he sees just what he has just that much brighter, just as you see just what you had before the break, hes a pretty special guy to you right? well hon if your back together than gaurentee he feels the same about your being very special to him as well, get over the sad feelings and stop letting them get you down ok,,,,good luck young lady,,,,,,,stinger5906,,,,,,,,,,
Reply:What do you mean when you say, " i look at like facebook ."?
Reply:Talk to him about it. If he got back with you after all that he was probably just trying to get it out of his system. Dont nag him just bring it up that you were a little bothered and see what he says.
Reply:Your insecurity will play a massive role in this relationship and it will be your choice whether you want to let it destroy your relationship.


Jealousy plays a major factor in any relationship and driving yourself to insainity worrying about his hookups will only end in tragedy, especially for you.


Once jealousy sets in then there is a cause for concern when trusting will be an issue for you.


So don't let your insecurities get in the way of something that might be the best thing that ever happened to you, although it's always good to be on your toes when letting someone in to your life.