Two years ago at college I asked a girl if she would go with me she said that I'm too quiet and it hurt?

asa she put a dent into my own thoughtsw of my persona, and now a few yares down the line she has found me on Facebook and wants to be my friend, what do I do?She did'nt have to let mke down so roughly by adding a comment about my personality, as I thought that we were closer than that!

Two years ago at college I asked a girl if she would go with me she said that I'm too quiet and it hurt?
say no. but don't bring the subject up again, just say no
Reply:Wow,youve been dwelling on it for 2 years that she turned you down for date and said you were 'too quiet"..and that hurt your feelings...Wow .I cant see what she did that would hurt..all she did was say you werent her type,no insult or anything.."get away from me you fat ,smelly ,toad!!!!" is a painful put down..."oh,Im sorry but your just too quiet for the stuff I like doing" is pretty darned nice of a shootdown. why hold a grudge because she didnt want to date? even for a short time...Ive found that just letting it all go by and just enjoying life works better, and If theres a girl that turns you down today,if she stays around you can usually get her tomorrow,her saying no just makes the game more interesting to get her to say yes.Ive never forgotten a single girl that I really liked (bar meetings dont count) that shot me down (especially back in high school) tho I never held it against them. I can say now that in the years since, Ive bedded all of them ,just by chance.The last one was a senior when i was a freshman, lovely half japanese girl, really tore me up when i tried to get friendly ,back then,you know how they can be.I saw her around from time to time,didnt think about having been shot down,just that she was still danged hot, so a couple years ago,I gave it a shot at a party,seems the age/status thing doesnt apply anymore,we had a great year before going our seperate ways,and are still "close friends" occassionally...so if one says no,then accept being their friend, it may just work out for you in the long run, being told "NO" doesnt do any harm and shouldnt hurt more than a few seconds.
Reply:hello Lachlan Glanniny





mmm people change and you have to try and forgive and forget. I can see why you feel this way as it was not the nicest way to turn you down.





If it were me i would give her a second chance and see if she has changed. Then you will know for certain and won't be feeling what If i had done this/ that later on





Also be aware just because she added you on facebook doesn't mean she fancys you but it does tell you that she must like you as a friend to some degree otherwise why would she add you?





Hope this Helps :D
Reply:You should tell her, that you do not remember who she is. Tell her to get lost!
Reply:whats facebook?