Friday, July 16, 2010

Would you be mad if your close child hood friend didnt invite you to her college graduation?

I knew my friend since grade school, in high school i switch school but we still kept in contact. She moved out of town but came back sophmore year of college. We started hanging out even more when she did. Everyone knew we were close. She was set to graduate this year but I didnt know any info about the graduation location,time, date. She texted me 1 day saying she wanted to go clubbing friday, she asked me cuz i know people to get us in free. Not knowing this was the so calI graduation party i said no because i had prior engagement. That Friday i text her, only to find out she was at her graduation. Later that day she post up the pics on facebook where it showed her having graduation dinner with friends that she spoken to 4 weeks prior to the graduation.I asked her why wasn't i invited and she made up these excuses about it being too early and too hot. I got mad bcuz i wasnt invited to none of the grad festivites except the club bcuz i can get her and the others in free

Would you be mad if your close child hood friend didnt invite you to her college graduation?
not much of a friend as u thought huh?


don't be mad be glad,you didn't have to buy her anything and didn't have to spend money going to a club with her.she sounds selfish,


think of it as her loss not yours
Reply:Yeah, I would feel used, too.





Maybe she isn't as good a friend as you thought she was.
Reply:I would be very mad, but it sounds like she and her friends were using you, lose all contact with her.
Reply:i would get very mad. obviously she is not a friend.
Reply:To you it may seem like you guys are really close but to others they're there for a bit but they're closer to others.


Always numbers can be restricted and even though you think you're #1 you might just be #25
Reply:i would be disappointed that my friend didn't invite me to her college graduation. that's a big step for someone and i would definitely want to be there. but if my friend invite me there, then she might not want me to be there.
Reply:I do get mad for a while. But then again it had been done. Don't let things like these break your friendship. But if she really do it to get rid of you. I think you should think back if you really want to still be her friend.
Reply:i would super mad...but you have other friends so dont worry about it
Reply:Wow, I would be very angry. I don't think it's very nice of her not to tell her childhood friend about her graduation party, especially if you still kept in contact. The way the world is now, people really aren't friends for that long.





And on top of that, she only asked you to go clubbing with her so that you could get her and others into the club for free ?!?!? Well let me tell you that is not a friend at all, and you really should talk to her about it, because not getting it out isn't going to help.





Good luck, I really hope this doesn't ruin your relationship with her, but you still have the right to be angry.
Reply:no bcuz it's not that big. you guys can hang out whenever you guys want and what if she wants to save a time for you guys to talk or like shopping.


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