Friday, July 16, 2010

My boy friend is going to college and I need help ASAP?

Ok So I'm a junior in High School %26amp; I live in Way.... Nothern Wisconsin %26amp; My Best Friend %26amp; not to mention he's my Boy Friend is a Freshmen in College %26amp; He's went to a College that was in Southern Wisconsin by Milwaukee but now he's transfering to a school in New York %26amp; I'll only get to see him like once a month I'm planing on going Out there with him this weekend to help him get settled in cause I have a 4 day weekend, %26amp; My parents got me plain tickets. but after that I wont get to see him for like another month %26amp; I know I can call him %26amp; that I can talk to him on FaceBook or MySpace, but its not the same %26amp; in 3 months its going to be our 2yr anniversery %26amp; I dont know how to deal with seeing him once every other month if I lucky I really need help %26amp; I know our relationship can withstand this its just going to be really hard %26amp; I could really use advice to help me through this.


%26amp; Please Only Answer this if you actually are going to say something that will help no stupid answer


Thnx :)

My boy friend is going to college and I need help ASAP?
You'll forget about him in time.
Reply:Love is hard and it seems that you are missing him a lot and hes not even gone yet,but whats weird is if he really loves you why does he go so far away from you?And does he express the same feelings you have.Has he given you a promise ring to show that his heart is fully with you.Hes growing up and the age difference complicates things because you cant go with him at the same time.I know being in love and if i were in the same situation i don't think i could leave. Granted education is extremely valuable to live a good life and being a great provider for your family.You're still young and need to concentrate on your education instead of going through these type of problems.
Reply:well i understand, i will be going through the same thing soon but if u think that you guys can withstand the distnace, i think its worth it to stay together. youll find time to see eachother as often as you can but you know that if you split up, ull still just be constantly thinking of eachother anyways. I say try it out, im sure itll be worth it
Reply:Sorry to hear that you're going to break up.





If you didn't realize that, sorry to break the news to you.





He's going to see lots of girls closer to his age and closer to him than you are. Absence may make the heart grow fonder, but its hell on the libido. Opportunity, is going to be knocking on his dorm room almost constantly, it is going to take a really strong sense of morality to keep him true to you.
Reply:See other people. It's a fact that long distance relationships never work out.
Reply:Apparently there's a severe shortage of punctuation in Wisconsin....





Aside from that - you'll live. E-mail him now and then, call him some times, too, but otherwise realize that you'll get through this. I can't promise that you two won't break up, but if that happens, you'll still live and recover from it. Life does go on - trust me.
Reply:Hey! Im in the same position as you. Its so hard. Its really gonna test your relationship. Something that also helps is write letters to eachother, its so much more personal than and email, and it helps me. Also sending pictures to eachother helps.

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