Friday, July 16, 2010

What should I tell him??

Hi everybody!





When I was in highschool, I had a really hard time with a certain group of guys. It all started when I dated one of them in 10th grade. For no reason at all, all of his friends disliked me, called me names, and basically made me feel like I wasn't worth two cents. They gave HIM a hard time for dating me and that was basically how our relationship ended. All through the rest of highschool, they picked on me and bullied me...for no reason at all! Anyways, I am currently in my 3rd year of college, and one of those mean guys found pictures of me on my college facebook (I've physically and emotionally changed a lot since then). He's sent me a ton of messages telling me how "beautiful" I am and telling me he can't believe it's me. At first, I thought it was a joke...or maybe he's changed since then and was feeling bad about how he used to be... but now he's actually asking me out. I'm not really sure how to take this...if I should forgive him...ignore him...what do you think?

What should I tell him??
Tell him yes, set a meeting place, and then blow him off. Don't show up. When he calls to see where you were, tell him you forgot. Set another date and do it again.





That should make him feel like a real loser, like he did to you in highschool. What a jerk.
Reply:When you first see him, if you decide to meet him, that is, then act very skeptical. I'm sure you'll manage that. And let him know through your attitude that you still have not forgotten the years of torture you have suffered. If he apologizes(Sincerely) then depending on you, perhaps you'd like to give him a second chance ;)





Good Luck
Reply:ignore him.....
Reply:the past is the past if guy is a jerks give him a hard time, but if you find him attractive and think something could happen give it a shot. But now you know that your hot so you can just find other guys to date.
Reply:Take it as a request from a guy who is so superficial that he could never see beyond his own shallowness.





Can you spell immature? Tell him to take a hike and go fishing in another pond.





Best.
Reply:Forgive him and MOVE ON. You can't seriously be thinking about dating a guy who had no respect for you because of the way you used to look, can you? He obviously is only attracted to you because of HOW you look. If he couldn't give you the time years ago, he's not worth it now. He sounds shallow.
Reply:People do grow up, butI would find out what the peoblem was before.
Reply:To error is human, to forgive is divine. It's not easy to forgive, but when you do, it is an amazing feeling. My girlfriend recently broke a promise she made to me, and I didn't get all pissed off, she apologized and asked for my forgiveness. So that is exactly what I did, forgave her, no questions asked.


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