Friday, July 16, 2010

Calling all Intelligent (college age or above) women, Please Help in this circumstance!!?

So this is whats been going on. My girlfriend and I broke up around a month ago, she said she was too busy with life (both in college, shes taking way too many hard classes) she also lives an hour away. We dated for going on 6 months. See it wasn't a messy break up but we didn't talk for a week or so. We began talking every couple days and she got frustrated with it, so we stopped talking, 2 days later she text's me saying she sorry. we continue to talk once every two days. Today she wrote a response to something on my facebook saying "You read my mind" then I Im'ed her later and she said "I Miss you!!" and she had to get back to school work but promised we would video chat (like we used t) later on this week when school settles down. We will be spending 4 months with each other starting in middle of may at a job where we will be seeing each other 24/7 (camp). I am still in love with this girl, does she still have feelings for me? I am hesitant to ask since i dont wanna push her away

Calling all Intelligent (college age or above) women, Please Help in this circumstance!!?
I think you guys are just too stressed out from school and work that you guys vent anger on your relationship. You guys are confused about your relationship's stance because maybe you guys don't spend enough time together. I think both of you broke up because you guys think that there's no time for a relationship.





I suggest you guys talk and be open about how you feel and let each other understand what you're thinking. Just because you both are busy people, it doesn't mean the relationship is dead. If you two are both understanding of each other, you guys will support each other in their priorities, like school and work. And understand that they can't always be with you when they're busy. But, you guys can always keep in touch by phone, emails, etc.
Reply:It seems she still has feelings for you but she is just overwhelmed with school and don't really want to have to put you on the back-burner. Just be there for her as you have. It means a lot to her I'm sure.♥
Reply:if she misses you then she obviously still has feelings for you.


why don't you ask her yourself, if you were dating for 6 months, shouldn't you be able to talk about things like that?
Reply:play it so so so cool and she'll come running back..sounds like she is already to a certain extent....


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