Friday, July 16, 2010

Calling All Women, Please Answer Question (please be at least college age to answer)?

So this is whats been going on. My girlfriend and I broke up around a month ago, she said she was too busy with life (both in college, shes taking way too many hard classes) she also lives an hour away. We dated for going on 6 months. See it wasn't a messy break up but we didn't talk for a week or so. We began talking every couple days and she got frustrated with it, so we stopped talking, 2 days later she text's me saying she sorry. we continue to talk once every two days. Today she wrote a response to something on my facebook saying "You read my mind" then I Im'ed her later and she said "I Miss you!!" and she had to get back to school work but promised we would video chat (like we used t) later on this week when school settles down. We will be spending 4 months with each other starting in middle of may at a job where we will be seeing each other 24/7 (camp). I am still in love with this girl, does she still have feelings for me? I am hesitant to ask since i dont wanna push her away

Calling All Women, Please Answer Question (please be at least college age to answer)?
It sounds like she still has feelings for you, but needs a little space... both for school and to just figure things out.
Reply:She broke up with you because she was busy with school? And you only live an hour away from each other? Am I right about this?...okay...





I'm only going by your mail. I'm sure the situation if more complicated than just this, but it sounds to me like she is a very very confused girl. That is hardly an excuse to break up with someone you've been with for almost half a year, especially if you have deep feelings for them.


I would want you to stay optimistic about this relationship, because anything is possible, but it seems to me that once your four months is up and she goes back to school with all of her "hard classes" again, that you will see the same cycle happening again.


I'm sorry to say that it doesn't sound that she loves you the same way you love her; considering the circumstances that you stated. But let that 4 months play out and see how it advances. People tend to mature over time.
Reply:it does seem like she still likes you just casual ask her or look for signs then ask her if you dont ask you will never know ( i am not a colleage age but very close )
Reply:Dude she sounds like DRAMA! Give up on her and act like you are moving on. If she wants to be with you make her earn you. U are at an age where you are over high school bull----. I am sure there will be plenty of other girls on campus for you to date.


Ask yourself this question...is She is worth it. Know she may keep playing these games with you if you let her. Stand up for yourself and say... I am over it. Don't be a door matt anymore.
Reply:well she obviously at least still wants to be friends with you


as for if she wants to date you again, there's really no telling for now. all you can do is wait and see how things go. working with her soon could really provide your answer as to what her feelings are but i wouldn't have a talk with her about it just take it easy and let things happen
Reply:well u cant really tell but see how it goes at camp. from what u wrote i dont really think she s like madly in love but when u get 2gether see how she acts but 2 me she just seems like a friend. so dont hesitate with her like take things slow but if she ends up liking u, then u should see the signs and go from there. but just dont rush things cuz then u might scare her so 4 now dont hesitate and just chill.


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