Should i delete my ex from facebook?!?

My ex (of almost 2 months now) are of course broken up. over the thanksgiving break he started messing with another girl. She is now coming home for winter break (college). I want to delete my ex from facbeook so that i wont have to see any pictures or comments from her on his wall.





Is this selfish or childish of me?


and if I do so, i want to atleast leave him a message saying its nothing personal i just dont want to see these types of things, if they occur (because they do often)





Me and my ex are still friends, we talk every now and then. He does (confusingly enough) still say that he wants to work on us, but it would take time and patience.





What should i do and how should i go about this?

Should i delete my ex from facebook?!?
This doesn't make any sense to me........





He has another girlfriend, but says he wants to work things out with you.


What I see him wanting out of this is a convenient Friends With Benefits type relationship with you.





Any guy that cheats on you should be considered a loser.


There's no need to continue a friendship or anything else. If you got back with him, then he'd probably cheat again and again.


So is your self-esteem worth the pain and anger that he causes? I really hope you said no.
Reply:Why would you want to befriend someone who disrespected you? If your best friend lied to you, hurt you, %26amp; still wanted to "be friends" would you trust her? How can any one person "work" on us?? I think he'd have to work on hisself %26amp; hope that he gets his act together so that he doesn't repeat the cheating process in the future with other women.





Delete Delete Delete! You owe him nothing!! No explaination... Get rid of him %26amp; move on!
Reply:Whatever gave you the idea that you need to explain anything to your ex? Delete him and let him come to his own conclusions as to why you refuse to ever have contact with him again.
Reply:Yea you totally need to delete him, it's too tempting to look and then MAN DOES IT HURT...........OUCH!!!!!
Reply:It is a good idea..that way she also cannot see yours. It is the best way to avoid any confrontation.
Reply:Of course you should delete him. You should also learn the facts of life:








1. There is no Santa


2. There might be a Bigfoot


3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat


4. Marriage ruins all relationships (moving in is the same)


5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)


6. Life is not fair





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